I never participate in these debates, let me tell you why. I can see crystal clearly both sides of the fence, and I think they're both right.
(I despise pot, though, and cannot see its appeal. Something tall & cold is more for me).
Yep, same here. I can see both sides, and there are compelling arguments either way.
Nevertheless, I did give my kids a directive when they were old enough to drink-get drunk, not high, because one's legal and one isn't. And, NEVER drive intoxicated.
DD will turn 25 this Sunday. She's pulling an all nighter with some friends at their house. I expect she'll get home sometime before work on Monday.
My kids told me one time I'd taken all the fun out of drinking and smoking since when they were teenagers I told them they could do both, in my house only. They took me up on it once or twice and quit. Nowadays neither one smokes and they only drink on special and rare occasions.
My parents did the same for me and I turned out okay. Heh, IMHO of course.