I was a little slow on the uptake, too. That happens to me all the time, though, my mind isn't in the gutter :innocent: (most of the time).
Marine guy makes a good point. I would also point out that the stroke victim is in a rehabilitation facility. He's being cared for. It's not like he's lying on the living room floor in his own mess and stuff. Like everybody else, we go after work hours. There's only so much you can do sitting beside a hospital bed.