My parents sold the house, bought a nice RV and travelled full time for five years. They owned lots in a resort in MS, and time share campground memberships all over the place. My dad at least had five pretty peaceful years of retirement before his early passing
The last RV was pretty top of the line, it cost more then the house sold for with an MSRP of 250k.....my mom sold the big RV, we took a major loss as that was right when fuel hit five bucks a gallon, but it was too much for her...and my dad fell off a ladder when waxing it, causing his death....it simply had to go. She bought a nice brand new RV trailer and it's been used both in Nevada & IL....now it's here full time in Nevada and she loves living in it...as I don't blame her, she lives in a very nice RV resort.
Very smart parents and good to be around parents Rob.
I bet those last 5 years were the most fun and a dream come true for your Dad. bless him.
I bet your Mom had some really funny storeys to tell her grandkids,
For some the predictable life of growing old around friends and family same oh-same oh is stress free. These are the people I feel die young---75-85. The sligest deviation in life causes stress that kills them.
On the road\ there is always stress, so one learns how to handle the problems in life. The brain is kept active, the more new thing one has in their life the more the brain is forced to work overtime. And all is inpersonal no worry you did something wrong, it just happend so handle it.
The most miserable people I know are those who sell out and move to be near family.
They expect to watch the grandbabys grow up to find they must now sacrifice their time and money to baby sit on demand or foot the bill for a $40,000 swimming pool----Its for the Kids----
These people cannot go anywhere on the spur of the moment for longer then 3 days without the guilt trip.
Just how much did YOUR grandparents do for you as a kid. Were you left money, property or stocks when they departed.?
One of your parents passed on, did they leave you anything or did everything go to a step parent. Very hard to see a step mother wearing you grandmothers jewelry or a step father wearing your dads tie clip.
Thing is when a child reaches maturity, they and only they are responsible for their lives.
People that have worked for 18 years or so and raised their kids can now STOP.
Life is short, people have but a few years left in work life and need to be finding ways to survive when their work days have ended.
Pack up, move, the kids now have to depend on their own Witt's to survive and feed their own kids.
Be surprised at what your kids can accomplish by themselves.Be surprised at how well the grandkids turn out without you there to defend them from themselves.