If it makes you feel any better, HomoGoon, he wasn't your "husband" this morning either. A man, even one as questionable as you, cannot have a "husband". He's just a dude who shares a house with you and indulges in deviant sex acts. All this will continue this afternoon regardless of the court's opinion.
I sometimes call my little dog my "baby". That doesn't make it true though. She's really just a dog.