I had a discussion about something similar with a friend of mine, also bi- - a social worker, and surprise of surprises, he said that 2nd grade is WAY too early for issues like this to be tackled, and if it were HIM. . .he'd want to investigate the parents for "undue influence"; according to him , "Gender issues are too f'n complicated to leave in the hands of in 5 year old."
*TKay*