Our next door neighbors on one side are black. On the other side, the husband is basic white, his wife is Chinese.
Both houses are half again larger than ours.
We don't "hang out" with either one...nor do we really know anything about them except to wave at as we go by....I'm not sure that I would recognize any of them if I ran into them somewhere. There's probably close to an acre between our houses.
We've lived here for 5 years. We have friends outside of our neighborhood.
Within days of moving in here....one of the kids in the subdivision came and knocked on the door, he had something the previous owner had ordered from him. Told him she no longer lived here. So his mother comes and knocks on the door and wants to know who I am, and all the "details"....then she asks me what my husband does. I said we weren't married. You would have thought I said he was Charles Manson!
We moved in the first of December. The homeowner's association bill made it to us with no problem. The invitation to the subdivision Christmas party never arrived.
The next year....I got a phone call from the HOA president wondering if we would hold the Christmas party at our house.
No f'n way!!!
Now you know why I really have no interest in my neighbors.
When David Keith (the actor-his wife is Asian) moved into the subdivision.....a party was held to welcome them.