When/before my wife and I marreid, I said she had to understand a couple of things, FIRST, I would hunt and own firearms. Second : At some juncture I intended to race auto's and she simple had to accept it, I'd have enough life ins. so she'd have her home free, clear and a couple of years worth of $.
If she could not accept that, well, we'd just not marry. We married, she learned to shoot and enjoyed it, but never tried to race cars. We're still together going on 43 years now......