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Offline dandi

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I need to vent
« on: February 19, 2022, 09:04:48 PM »
DUmmy attends religious funeral and is angrily astonished when he encounters ... wait for it ... religion.


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I need to vent

Today was our cousins funeral service. It was a beautiful tribute. But it all came crashing down when the minister or Pastor or whatever the **** came out to talk. What made me angry is that these blowhards have to interject themselves into the service by talking about stupid shit. Calling our bodies tents and when the tents wear out. We go home aka heaven. Goes on about how when we grieve, we only grieve for ourselves and not the one who passed. LIKE WHO THE **** DO YOU THINK YOU ARE?! Our cousin passed away from cancer and we are selfish if we grieve? Like get off your high horse. And to top it off. We need to prepare our whole lives to die and dying is a good thing. Like oh **** off! I will spend my only life on this earth enjoying life! I'm not preparing my entire life for whatever the **** comes next whether its heaven, hell, or nothing at all.

All I can say is I'm never stepping foot into another ****ing church again. I don't care who I know gets married or dies. I will not step my foot into a place where I believe evil is.

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Okay, first of all, if a person has a faith-based funeral service it is usually because in all likelihood they were a person of faith to begin with. The family normally chooses it because that is the way the deceased would want it, or how they believe they would have wanted it, and a faith-based funeral is a religious service, just like a faith-based wedding. It is a ministry.

Secondly, the concept of "Don't grieve for the departed, grieve for ourselves" is a common theme in Christianity, as the dead have gone on to receive their reward in Heaven and we are left behind to mourn our loss. That's not the same as saying that grieving is "selfish." Grieving is a perfectly normal response to loss, whether it be a loss of life, loss of health, loss of a relationship, whatever.

If anyone is selfish in this entire scenario, it's the DUmmy who can only think about their own outrage at being exposed to the Gospel rather than paying respect to the deceased and the things they held important to their lives, including their own faith.



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1. I'm so sorry, not only for the loss of your cousin, but also

For being subjected to this while you are grieving, comforting family, and paying respects.

Inconsiderate dead Christians. Don't they know they should stipulate a secular funeral service so no one will be offended?

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3. My own personal un-favorite are the ones who use the occasion to "sell the product"...

.. to proselytize their particular... and peculiar... brand of Christianity.
Using an occasion like a wedding or funeral is NOT a chance to push your own views.

Like I said; a Christian funeral is a Christian service. You don't think they might touch on themes of God, faith, and salvation?

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7. The minister couldn't have been any more wrong...

Wrong place.

Wrong time.

And most certainly wrong words.


His duty in that moment is to try to bring comfort and peace, not hurt. That is not the time to lecture people on grief or how they are feeling. Hell, no time is a good time to do so, but, I'm not sure there would be a worse time or place than the ones he chose to lecture you and everyone there to pay tribute to your cousin

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It is exactly the place, you moron. For Christians, God's plan for salvation is what brings comfort and peace in the midst of death. The body dies but the spirit lives on.

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8. Took all my energy

To not yelled that's horseshit and walk out. Because legit it wasn't the time for a lecture from a false prophet

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18. Someone needs to

kindly tell him that he missed the mark completely, and that people left the funeral more angry, sadder, and confused by his judgmental commentary. He sounds like someone who hasn't experienced much loss.

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Re: I need to vent
« Reply #1 on: February 19, 2022, 09:13:14 PM »
vercetti2021, I am sorry that you are such an intolerant bigot that you become offended by the expression of other people's beliefs. I'm sure there was a minister presiding over the event because that is what the family wanted. Sometimes things are not about you. When you have your funeral make sure you have an atheist to lead the service.
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Re: I need to vent
« Reply #2 on: February 19, 2022, 09:17:09 PM »
I find there are two kinds of atheists.

Some are cool with it. They can interact with people of Faith and be just fine. Tolerance defines these people.

Others are the worst bigots you will ever meet. They are offended at any expression of faith. They will go out of their way to offend the Faithful and claim ignorance when called on it. They make elaborate plans to debate God should they meet Him on the Day of Judgement. ~~I kinda get the feeling this type believes but lives in rebellion against God.

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Re: I need to vent
« Reply #3 on: February 19, 2022, 09:21:21 PM »
As with everything libs do, it’s all about them. “Eat, drink, and be merry” is their motto without a single thought for anyone else. It’s become so commonplace in the things they say when they post I hardly notice it anymore, and I should.

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Re: I need to vent
« Reply #4 on: February 19, 2022, 09:54:04 PM »
DUmmy attends religious funeral and is angrily astonished when he encounters ... wait for it ... religion.


DUmmie is offended that the Pasteur talks about the personal grieving process, then proceeds to make it all about him and his own hatred.
**** this guy.

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Re: I need to vent
« Reply #5 on: February 19, 2022, 10:23:04 PM »
I ran into one funeral service that rubbed me wrong. My wife's step-grampa was one of the finest people I ever met. Salt of the earth humble and always had you feeling better after seeing him. A truly great example of humanity. He got cancer and dwindled quickly and painfully. At his pentecostal funeral the preacher was one of those kind you hear on am radio in the south Sunday nights. Never a mention about Clark and his good spirit and wonderful life. Just some generic nonsense about eternal damnation for not being pentecostal saved.  I had a eulogy about the man that touched on his life and legacy that stayed in my pocket because surely the professional would have done better.
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« Reply #6 on: February 19, 2022, 10:29:57 PM »
I want to be roasted at my funeral. Let me go out making people laugh.
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Re: I need to vent
« Reply #7 on: February 19, 2022, 10:38:29 PM »
I'm surprised the DUmmy didn't blame the cousin's cancer on Trump.
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Re: I need to vent
« Reply #8 on: February 20, 2022, 12:39:32 AM »
I want to be roasted at my funeral. Let me go out making people laugh.

Good one. I'm going to have this played at mine: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=SJUhlRoBL8M
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Re: I need to vent
« Reply #9 on: February 20, 2022, 07:58:36 AM »
Funerals have included religious expressions for as many millennia as we have records and/or evidence, whether Christian, Jewish, Muslim, Hindu ....... etc., etc., etc.. Has vercetti2021 never read Greek or Roman classics like the Iliad or Aeneid? Has vercetti2021 never seen pictures and descriptions of Pharaonic, Egyptian nobles' and bureaucrats' tombs and funerary preparations?

Whole lotta DU-Ignorance on display in that thread. When pastors/ministers/priests do a funeral service, they and the customs followed are what the deceased and the immediate family of the deceased CHOSE. And DUmmies like vercetti2021 and the other DU-folk on that thread railing against a normal funeral are being BOORS.

ETA: Just glanced through the 34 posts on the thread, and not one reply even hinted that what vercetti2021 actually railed against was what was chosen by the deceased and the immediate family.

I'm an Evangelical Christian, raised in the Lutheran Church Missouri Synod, which is theologically conservative, and over the past few decades have been a member, variously, of charismatic and Baptist congregations. If I'm at a Catholic funeral or wedding, it doesn't bother me that mass is celebrated. That is normal, that is what the family chose. If I'm at a Jewish, Buddhist, Hindu, etc. funeral or wedding, it doesn't bother me that the customs of that religion are followed (and I will make discrete inquiries to make sure I don't do anything that distracts from those customs ... that's just normal respect). That is normal, that is what the family chose. If the funeral or wedding is non-religious, that doesn't bother me, be cause that is what the family chose, their normal. And those DU-folk venting their collective spleen on that thread would view me as intolerant and themselves as tolerant. :mental:
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« Reply #10 on: February 20, 2022, 11:43:15 AM »
DUchebags gots to DUchebag.

Any bets that this DUchebag hasn't spoke to its cousin in decades because of this bigoted action it pulls at every family gathering?
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Re: I need to vent
« Reply #11 on: February 20, 2022, 12:54:15 PM »
Shane is so damn stupid, leave it to him to get all worked up that a minister talks about religion. Another aging millennial that lives at home with his "momma".  :mental:



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« Reply #12 on: February 20, 2022, 03:39:09 PM »
What’s that tall green sparkly thing behind him?
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« Reply #13 on: February 20, 2022, 05:11:39 PM »
I want to be roasted at my funeral. Let me go out making people laugh.
Apple in your mouth or no....?
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« Reply #14 on: February 20, 2022, 05:33:38 PM »
Apple in your mouth or no....?


I was wondering pit roasted, or spit roasted, myself.
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« Reply #15 on: February 20, 2022, 06:11:20 PM »
Apple in your mouth or no....?

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« Reply #16 on: February 20, 2022, 08:28:38 PM »
When you're dead, you don't know it. It's only burden to others.

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« Reply #17 on: February 20, 2022, 09:21:38 PM »
I want to be roasted at my funeral. Let me go out making people laugh.

That's a great idea! Hell, they can put my casket on the stage at the local comedy club. Make it Open Mic Night.

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« Reply #18 on: February 20, 2022, 11:12:05 PM »
That's a great idea! Hell, they can put my casket on the stage at the local comedy club. Make it Open Mic Night.

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« Reply #19 on: February 20, 2022, 11:38:48 PM »
When you're dead, you don't know it. It's only burden to others.

It's the same when you're stupid.

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« Reply #20 on: February 21, 2022, 08:33:11 AM »
I plan on having an organist play "Pop Goes The Weasel" endlessly, holding the note and stopping JUST SHY of the "pop goes the weasel" refrain.
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« Reply #21 on: February 21, 2022, 04:05:50 PM »
Don't forget this is the guy who wants to be a woman ...

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« Reply #22 on: February 21, 2022, 09:26:16 PM »


His physical appearance is that of someone who is an idiot. His viewpoints confirm it.

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