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I can't help it, I'm very sad
« on: August 28, 2008, 04:30:14 AM »
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I can't help it, I'm very sad (long post - be prepared)
   
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This has been a tough year for me, since returning from Iraq in July 07 the stress hasn't went away. I've been diagnosed with depression and currently have no health care or medication. While I was discharged for marijuana use it was primarily because a new unit commander back in January with no knowledge of who I am initiated an OTH discharge, the seperation authority gave me general under honorable. I only used after stressful events most notably my wife moving back to Arizona after I was facing eviction(my dumbass gets an apartment I can't afford and she was unable to find a job) I coulda stayed but had no motivation to when commanders who have no compassion for what I'm going for and that I worked so hard and gave so much and with him unwilling to fight for me I was like **** it.

I found work here but it was at a freezer warehouse making 6.90 an hour for 30 hours. I've been going thru alot of stress and my wife was very unhappy with what little money I could provide. I've been sick for 2 weeks mostly last week where I missed 2 days of work that my wife was unhappy with but I literally couldn't work in a warehouse that is below 10 degrees. However Monday I accidently overslept because I set me alarm for PM instead of AM and was afraid to tell my wife that I miss worked knowing her anger. After two attempted calls she sent a text "why aren't you answering your ****ing phone" I told her I was afraid to talk to her and she proceded with a "**** you" and a "stay your ass right there" (i was doing a favor for my mom) I didn't respond primarily because like many times it invites me to get into an emotional heated argument and it usually results in tears and me begging for forgiveness. Later on she sent a text basically telling me not to call, not to come home and that she would drop a bag of my stuff at my mom's (I learned later she dropped off on her porch which I never got that had many military forms with my SS all over it and library books that are due on the 27th (sigh)

Instead of responding I choose not too, I'm stressed just as much as she is and it doesn't help my stress at all getting involved. Overall I've been coping very well with the DNC convention running this week and it's been making me very happy.(though seeing Obama and clinton spouses happy for each other makes me think about it) However it being late and it's just rerun speeches leaves me time to think about it and therefore tears. Even though she can be very angry, unsupportive person she is really great person beneath it all who is independent, strong, and has a mind of her own. So she told me she will be sending me divorce papers and that I'm facing a divorce it isn't easy for me to keep this with all the other ongoing stress is very hard for me to deal with and I have no one to talk to so that is why I'm posting

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=show_mesg&forum=105&topic_id=8057246&mesg_id=8057246

Oh NOZ, STRESS !!!

Loser.

This is one of the funniest things I've read in a long time.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #1 on: August 28, 2008, 05:38:40 AM »
The dude needs to check out the VA and get some help.

PTSD isn't funny. Even if you were a FOBbit.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #2 on: August 28, 2008, 05:54:53 AM »
I don't know if he's a real vet or not, but he did manage to hit every major lib sterotype of living with Bush has President. PSTD, low wages, divorce, bad job, poor health care, desire for legalized marijuana, etc, etc, etc. I don't think he missed a thing.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #3 on: August 28, 2008, 06:10:56 AM »
Man I would be sad too if I had to live this broke dick loser's life!

He gets a DD or a less than honorable for being a dickhead and then complains because he can only get a crappy job?

Well DUH!!!!

Holy Hell.
« Last Edit: August 28, 2008, 06:12:46 AM by asdf2231 »
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #4 on: August 28, 2008, 07:12:03 AM »
Prozac's generic form is $4 a month at Walmart.  Stop whining and freaking do something about it! :thatsright:  Every single issue you listed was your own fault.  You need to step up to the plate and fix yourself.  The government NEVER EVER NEVER fixed anyone.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #5 on: August 28, 2008, 09:12:16 AM »
Quote from: FlaGator on August 28, 2008, 05:54:53 AM
I don't know if he's a real vet or not, but he did manage to hit every major lib sterotype of living with Bush has President. PSTD, low wages, divorce, bad job, poor health care, desire for legalized marijuana, etc, etc, etc. I don't think he missed a thing.

It looks rather molish to me.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #6 on: August 28, 2008, 10:49:21 AM »
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While I was discharged for marijuana use it was primarily because a new unit commander back in January with no knowledge of who I am initiated an OTH discharge
Didn't know who he was? My, aren't we full of ourselves? Yes, use of illegal drugs while in service will get your stupid, worthless ass thrown out. This is, in no way a new policy. Nor, is it in anyway the commander's decision.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #7 on: August 28, 2008, 10:51:37 AM »
Quote from: mamacags on August 28, 2008, 07:12:03 AM
Prozac's generic form is $4 a month at Walmart.  Stop whining and freaking do something about it! :thatsright:  Every single issue you listed was your own fault.  You need to step up to the plate and fix yourself.  The government NEVER EVER NEVER fixed anyone.

You dig a hole and keep digging and then complain "I am at the bottom of this hole and I can't get out!"
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #8 on: August 28, 2008, 11:10:38 AM »
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I don't know if he's a real vet or not, but he did manage to hit every major lib sterotype of living with Bush has President. PSTD, low wages, divorce, bad job, poor health care, desire for legalized marijuana, etc, etc, etc. I don't think he missed a thing.

Whoever is nurturing this mole should be proud. A brilliant example of molation, in a league with the Wolsh/Kerry 2008 masterpiece. If the story had included "Bush lied", it would have achieved pure perfection. You have my admiration; we amateurs can only aspire to such heights.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #9 on: August 28, 2008, 11:22:50 AM »
Quote from: GOBUCKS on August 28, 2008, 11:10:38 AM
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I don't know if he's a real vet or not, but he did manage to hit every major lib sterotype of living with Bush has President. PSTD, low wages, divorce, bad job, poor health care, desire for legalized marijuana, etc, etc, etc. I don't think he missed a thing.

Whoever is nurturing this mole should be proud. A brilliant example of molation, in a league with the Wolsh/Kerry 2008 masterpiece. If the story had included "Bush lied", it would have achieved pure perfection. You have my admiration; we amateurs can only aspire to such heights.


Also needed high gas prices and global warming hysteria.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #10 on: August 28, 2008, 11:39:48 AM »
The military has counselors tohelp cope with stress.  He started hitting the Mary Jane because he felt like it.  He won't talk to his wife and he wonders why she is upset with him.

Anyone want to bet that before he got booted from the Army he had a file folder full of negative counseling statements?
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #11 on: August 28, 2008, 11:44:59 AM »
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #12 on: August 28, 2008, 11:56:20 AM »
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #13 on: August 28, 2008, 12:19:01 PM »
Boo frickin hoo.

Make bad choices or decisions and pay the price,no one owes you an escape hatch for your own stupidity.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #14 on: August 28, 2008, 12:59:16 PM »
Here, let me help your bouncy out:



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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #15 on: August 28, 2008, 01:04:42 PM »
Quote from: asdf2231 on August 28, 2008, 06:10:56 AM
Man I would be sad too if I had to live this broke dick loser's life!

He gets a DD or a less than honorable for being a dickhead and then complains because he can only get a crappy job?

Well DUH!!!!

Holy Hell.

Actually he got a General-under-honorable, not quite as good as an Honorable but it doesn't carry any serious disabilities with it and it leaves all his VA benefits completely intact.  He could be a damned sight worse off under the circumstances.   
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #16 on: August 28, 2008, 04:55:49 PM »
Quote from: DumbAss Tanker on August 28, 2008, 01:04:42 PM
Quote from: asdf2231 on August 28, 2008, 06:10:56 AM
Man I would be sad too if I had to live this broke dick loser's life!

He gets a DD or a less than honorable for being a dickhead and then complains because he can only get a crappy job?

Well DUH!!!!

Holy Hell.

Actually he got a General-under-honorable, not quite as good as an Honorable but it doesn't carry any serious disabilities with it and it leaves all his VA benefits completely intact.  He could be a damned sight worse off under the circumstances.  

So I was wrong and he is just a General Issue asshat drug using failtard rather than a burdened with the government stamp of FAIL asshat drug user failtard?
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #17 on: August 28, 2008, 05:03:37 PM »
Quote from: asdf2231 on August 28, 2008, 04:55:49 PM
Quote from: DumbAss Tanker on August 28, 2008, 01:04:42 PM
Quote from: asdf2231 on August 28, 2008, 06:10:56 AM
Man I would be sad too if I had to live this broke dick loser's life!

He gets a DD or a less than honorable for being a dickhead and then complains because he can only get a crappy job?

Well DUH!!!!

Holy Hell.

Actually he got a General-under-honorable, not quite as good as an Honorable but it doesn't carry any serious disabilities with it and it leaves all his VA benefits completely intact.  He could be a damned sight worse off under the circumstances.  

So I was wrong and he is just a General Issue asshat drug using failtard rather than a burdened with the government stamp of FAIL asshat drug user failtard?
That's right. And apparently it's an important distinction in the heirarchy of failtards.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #18 on: August 28, 2008, 06:11:52 PM »
Tom Daschle is deeply saddened.
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Re: I can't help it, I'm very sad
« Reply #19 on: August 28, 2008, 10:59:03 PM »
What a ******* pussie!!!!
someone loan this guy some balls....please..... :thatsright:
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