I'll say what I want to say when I want to say it. If I think you're a stupid bitch who is also fat and ugly, in person I'll be polite and just try to avoid you. If you thrust yourself into the public eye, and especially if you and all the other fat ugly bitches start fawning on each other about how sexy and beautiful you all are, I'll say fat ugly bitch. It's calling a spade a spade, not shaming.