I have to disown my sister

[bijou]

jus_the_facts  (1000+ posts)       Thu Jul-31-08 06:42 PM
Original message
I have to disown my sister...she did the most unthinkable thing EVER...
 Advertisements [?]...my mom told me that she took all the cats she and her husband had accumulated (because they refused to spend the money to have them spayed/neutered) and dropped them off at the dump...all 7 of them...one of the little darlings only had three legs. All my cats were once strays that someone else threw away....how she and I share the same blood is BEYOND me.

She is a self proclaimed CHRISTIAN and she sees me as a heathen bordering on possibly bein' the anti-christ because of my views (which in an extreme emotional state of complete mental exhaustion in early January of 2001..I screamed at her in her church parking lot and she had me detained in a psych ward for a week over that instead of thrown in jail) but I let that go and forgave her...I don't think I'll ever be able to forgive her for this...nor look her in the face again.
 

skygazer  (1000+ posts)       Thu Jul-31-08 06:55 PM
Response to Original message
1. I've never understood how a person could do such a thing
 Can't say as I blame you - she sounds like a piece of work.

Coinicidentally, my daughter disowned me today which was no real surprise (or loss unfortunately). She's gone to the Dark Side - Republican trailer-trash*.

Do you know if anyone rescued the kitties?







*apologies to Oedi and others who live or have lived in mobile homes - I mean it strictly in the negative slang sense.

jus_the_facts  (1000+ posts)       Thu Jul-31-08 07:56 PM
Response to Reply #6
18. She's my only sibling...and she's always been hateful.....
 ...I think her brain damage goes back to having to take care of me when my parents weren't around...she still resents me for it to this day.

MountainLaurel  (1000+ posts)       Thu Jul-31-08 07:23 PM
Response to Original message
9. Oh dear God
 I think I would have to break off ties with someone like that, AND report them for animal cruelty.

Interesting point, why didn't she report this?

jus_the_facts  (1000+ posts)       Thu Jul-31-08 07:58 PM
Response to Reply #9
19. If I'd known about it beforehand I would have reported her for it...
 ...unfortuately I didn't know and I'm sure she wouldn't want me to know about it now...knowing how I feel about my own cats.

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=105x7975146#7975183

A couple of people suggest reporting the sister, but somehow there is always a reason she can't.

[franksolich]

A couple of people suggest reporting the sister, but somehow there is always a reason she can't.

She probably can't report the sister, because it's highly likely it's not true.

It could be, but my radar expresses skepticism.

[Schadenfreude]

Ah.... her sister is a Christian.... that explains everything. 

[Uhhuh35]

The primitive is only posting that and looking for favorable responses. I'll bet the OP doesn't have the guts to confront or disown anyone.
As Frank used to say; "Remember, Liberals lie. They lie all the time". Or something to that effect.

[Bondai]

A couple of people suggest reporting the sister, but somehow there is always a reason she can't.

She probably can't report the sister, because it's highly likely it's not true.

It could be, but my radar expresses skepticism.

I have to agree with you Frank, something sounds fishy. Somebody is mad at her sister and is making things up to vent her anger, perhaps.

[franksolich]

The primitive is only posting that and looking for favorable responses. I'll bet the OP doesn't have the guts to confront or disown anyone.
As Frank used to say; "Remember, Liberals lie. They lie all the time". Or something to that effect.

The correct original quotation is "Remember, DUmmies lie.  All the time, DUmmies lie."

The correct current quotation is "Remember, primitives lie.  All the time, primitives lie."

Either one is acceptable; one can pick and use.

[BEG]

I don't have the patience for these types of threads anymore.  Go ahead you stupid f*cker, disown your sister.  See how you feel when something terrible happens to her or how your Mom feels during the holidays. 

[Lord Undies]

I screamed at her in her church parking lot and she had me detained in a psych ward for a week over that instead of thrown in jail

I know the laws.  This is not easy to accomplish.  The DUmmie must have done more than yell.  The DUmmie probably saw the Light of the Lord in her sister's eyes and then went into satanistic fits in the church parking lot (writhing and screaming and clawing herself; spitting up pea soup; head did a 360; growled at her sister saying their "mother sews socks that smell").

[dutch508]

The primitive is only posting that and looking for favorable responses. I'll bet the OP doesn't have the guts to confront or disown anyone.
As Frank used to say; "Remember, Liberals lie. They lie all the time". Or something to that effect.

The correct original quotation is "Remember, DUmmies lie.  All the time, DUmmies lie."

The correct current quotation is "Remember, primitives lie.  All the time, primitives lie."

Either one is acceptable; one can pick and use.

I think, Frank, there was a bit of truth there, She said, the damage [to their relationship] started when she had to take care of her...

Of course the older sister had to take care of teh younger, and prob'ly was a leftist even then. Take take take. The older sister got fed up with the whining and broke the relationship with the needy whiny DUmmie.

[Ptarmigan]

Sounds like Fred Phelps disowning his own family, father, stepmother, and sister.

[Red October]

I'm gonna go ahead and use my psychic powers to read the sister's mind here....

"I spend my childhood wiping her ass while mom got stoned and she repays me by embarassing me in public and disowning me?  Good riddance to bad ****ing rubbish!  See if I ever bail her out of jail again!"

My powers are scary strong, I tell ya.  

[Schadenfreude]

I'm gonna go ahead and use my psychic powers to read the sister's mind here....

"I spend my childhood wiping her ass while mom got stoned and she repays me by embarassing me in public and disowning me?  Good riddance to bad ****ing rubbish!  See if I ever bail her out of jail again!"

My powers are scary strong, I tell ya.  

[Tucker]

I screamed at her in her church parking lot and she had me detained in a psych ward for a week over that instead of thrown in jail) but I let that go and forgave her...I don't think I'll ever be able to forgive her for this...nor look her in the face again.

Lets see if I got this right. Her sister had her commited and she forgave her. Her sister abused some cats and it's a unforgivable act.

[TheSarge]

Ah.... her sister is a Christian.... that explains everything. 

The part about the cats was merely a lie tossed in to gain sympathy....this woman's real problem with her sister is that she goes to Church.

[Splashdown]

I screamed at her in her church parking lot and she had me detained in a psych ward for a week over that instead of thrown in jail) but I let that go and forgave her...I don't think I'll ever be able to forgive her for this...nor look her in the face again.

Lets see if I got this right. Her sister had her commited and she forgave her. Her sister abused some cats and it's a unforgivable act.

Well, it proves the poster is indeed a loon!

[BlueStateSaint]

Ah.... her sister is a Christian.... that explains everything. 

The part about the cats was merely a lie tossed in to gain sympathy....this woman's real problem with her sister is that she goes to Church.

Target, cease fire.  H5.

[Schadenfreude]

Ah.... her sister is a Christian.... that explains everything. 

The part about the cats was merely a lie tossed in to gain sympathy....this woman's real problem with her sister is that she goes to Church.

Target, cease fire.  H5.

I agree, to borrow an old principal from communism 'the ends justifies the means'.

[DixieBelle]

Ugh. I love how they are always the innocent party who nevers does anything wrong. They do lie. All of the time.

[Carl]

What an endless parade of dementia and evil the DUmp provides.

[Red October]

I'm gonna go ahead and use my psychic powers to read the sister's mind here....

"I spend my childhood wiping her ass while mom got stoned and she repays me by embarassing me in public and disowning me?  Good riddance to bad ****ing rubbish!  See if I ever bail her out of jail again!"

My powers are scary strong, I tell ya.  

These people kill me, Schade.  I've been to a few different conservative sites, and I've never seen one of us start threads talking about disowning or being disowned by family members, especially over politics or personal philosophy.  Only at DU have I EVER seen someone calling their own daughter "trailer trash" because of who she votes for.  Unbelievable.  These people are completely unqualified to speak of family, love, or tolerance.   

[Red October]

Ah.... her sister is a Christian.... that explains everything. 

Every time I hear about some banger in the 'hood capping up a rival drug dealer, I think to myself "There goes another so-called 'tolerant liberal,' showing his true murderous colors again."

[Schadenfreude]

I'm gonna go ahead and use my psychic powers to read the sister's mind here....

"I spend my childhood wiping her ass while mom got stoned and she repays me by embarassing me in public and disowning me?  Good riddance to bad ****ing rubbish!  See if I ever bail her out of jail again!"

My powers are scary strong, I tell ya.  

These people kill me, Schade.  I've been to a few different conservative sites, and I've never seen one of us start threads talking about disowning or being disowned by family members, especially over politics or personal philosophy.  Only at DU have I EVER seen someone calling their own daughter "trailer trash" because of who she votes for.  Unbelievable.  These people are completely unqualified to speak of family, love, or tolerance.   

I witnessed the birth of Bouncy Ball (the one and only) at a forum many years ago. It became clear to me at this little parenting site that was infested with granola moms, that embellishing or flat lying about something is acceptable if political points could be made. Their arguments on their own merits are weak and don't stand up to annoying little things like facts.

[Vagabond]

My sister faked a suicide attempt when she was having problems with her second baby's daddy.  It took my parents two days to track her dumb ass down.  When they finally got to her in the psych ward she commented, "Gee, there are some really crazy people in here."

The response can be summed up with, "Gee, ya think?"

That woman may as well be a DUmmie, she isn't capable of supporting hersself and her kids but, that hasn't stopped her from causing immense pain to her family.  That being said, if she picked up the phone and called me for help, she would get it.

[Donpeyote]

 Did you divorce first ? (Primitive anti-NASCAR humor and Pathetic ATTEMPT i KNOW../

[mamacags]

True story...
My Mother-in-laws neighbors are union supporting democrats who don't go to church.  They HATE Bush and think he is the worst thing ever.  They had 2 indoor cats for years and years.  One day she decided she didn't want to have to clean up after them anymore and took them to the pound.  She told them at the pound that the cats were violent so they couldn't be adopted.  She just wanted them put to sleep for free.  She told me all of this.  I was shocked because I have never known anyone to do that before.