back-story on thunderthigh's martial spat

[franksolich]

http://www.democraticunderground.com/11516398

Oh my.

Everybody's seen BattleHymn's thread about the woes of thunderthighs, that she posted on Skins' island on Saturday, June 18.

This one's from the preceding Tuesday, June 14.

fizzgig (24,058 posts)    Tue Jun 14, 2016, 10:20 AM

well, things went completely pear shaped
 
he's moving out and i've never felt more sad and alone. don't want to talk about what lead up to this, but it ****ing hurts.

<<<am curious as to why thunderthighs thinks she's missing something by having flubby hubby out of her life.

mopinko (45,607 posts)    Tue Jun 14, 2016, 12:31 PM

2. ugh.
 
well, all i can say is that you are in for several months of bullshit, followed by inner peace.

and frankly, you are lucky his first move was to move out. the 3 months between the final break and managing to force him out of the house were the longest of my life.

take care of yourself, honey.

fizzgig (24,058 posts)    Wed Jun 15, 2016, 09:51 AM

11. oh, he said some stupid shit to me yesterday
 
but there was no way he was staying here after what happened the other night and he took his first load yesterday.*

all i can say is thank gods there's no money or children involved.

i miss him terribly in some ways, but not others. 

*<<<wonders what the back-story on that is.

elleng (68,885 posts)    Tue Jun 14, 2016, 03:30 PM

4. OH damn, fizz!
 
Some damn thing's in the air apparently, even tho 2000 miles apart; same with my son in law and daughter (with 2 little ones.) 

^^^the husband-hating--even though he's been dead for a long time now--elleng primitive, who always tries to one-up other primitives in their tales of martial woes.

fizzgig (24,058 posts)    Wed Jun 15, 2016, 09:58 AM

12. it's a terrible realization that you can no longer live with someone you love so much
 
i still haven't had a hug since this happened, but i'm afraid that i'll start crying and never stop if i do get one.

i'm sorry that your daughter is going through this, too. i can only imagine how much harder it must be with the little ones.

PoliticalMalcontent (352 posts)    Tue Jun 14, 2016, 04:58 PM

7. I am sorry, fizzgig.
 
As much as it sucks now, it could have been a necessary step for you to get to a better place somewhere down the line. Silver linings.

You are cared about.

fizzgig (24,058 posts)    Wed Jun 15, 2016, 10:05 AM

13. thanks
 
my dad told me there was some underlying lesson that i had to learn with this.* i am sure the both of you are right.

*Yeah, there is a lesson in this: don't fall for a guy who doesn't respect you.

Geezuz gawd thunderthighs, he dropped clues all over the place.

[Big Dog]

well, things went completely pear shaped

That may be part of the problem, if by "things" fizzy meant "my body". Weed, beer, gut bombs, and more weed will do that to a koala bear gal.

[franksolich]

That may be part of the problem, if by "things" fizzy meant "my body". Weed, beer, gut bombs, and more weed will do that to a koala bear gal.

Yeah, there was a time when she looked good for hopping around with in the sack.

Nowadays, with the added bulk from smoking dope, not so much.

[GOBUCKS]

In the past, she's really appreciated him when he has stolen cool stuff from work. There was the truckload of toilet paper that spilled at the loading dock, and then there was the wide-screen TV that fell off a truck and was miraculously undamaged. From time to time there were other cool electronic odds and ends to use or sell for weed money.

The friction she has described in the past always had to do with him complaining about her drug use, mainly vast amounts of weed on their minimum wage jobs.

He's a thief, but he draws the line at drugs.

Anyone who sends money to an addict and thinks it will be spent on rent is a DUmmy.

[Big Dog]

Yeah, there was a time when she looked good for hopping around with in the sack.

Nowadays, with the added bulk from smoking dope, not so much.

She's storing it up for winter hibernation, which she intends to begin this weekend.

[Ralph Wiggum]

Padding the resume for DUmmy of the year in '16.

[BattleHymn]

fizzgig (24,058 posts)    Wed Jun 15, 2016, 09:51 AM

11. oh, he said some stupid shit to me yesterday
 
but there was no way he was staying here after what happened the other night and he took his first load yesterday.

And fizzgig's first load in the back alley isn't too far behind.

[I_B_Perky]

Fizzy is upset that her weed buying money has dried up. 

Expect another gofundme page.

[Big Dog]

but there was no way he was staying here after what happened the other night

Mr. fizz was in a fever delirium, and called out the name of the hot bicycle chick who can crack walnuts with her pelvic muscles.

[I_B_Perky]

fizzgig (24,058 posts)    Wed Jun 15, 2016, 09:51 AM

11. oh, he said some stupid shit to me yesterday
 
but there was no way he was staying here after what happened the other night and he took his first load yesterday.*

Cryptic statement.  Is he is a closet gay and she caught him getting it up the hind end?   

Stay tuned for the next installment of...

As the fizzy gigs gags.

[SVPete]

Just curious ... is the word in the title an intentional Malaprop? Or a transposed letters typo?

When messed up people marry, it's more multiplicative than additive.

[franksolich]

Just curious ... is the word in the title an intentional Malaprop? Or a transposed letters typo?

When messed up people marry, it's more multiplicative than additive.

It was intentional; I wanted to see if anyone would "get it."

<<<does things like that, makes on purpose what appear to be errors, just to see the reaction it gets.

[SVPete]

< < < <  Didn't notice at first. The human brain tends to "auto-correct" "typos" to what the brain knows should be there.

[Mr Mannn]

*Yeah, there is a lesson in this: don't fall for a guy who doesn't respect you.

I side with the husband. The lesson here is, "Give the man a reason to respect you."

Spending the grocery money on weed is not a way to earn respect.
Cutting your hair into a buzz cut is not going to turn his eye.
Holding no job, doing nothing all day, giving him a slovenly house to return to each night garners NO respect.

Husband doesn't respect you because he has no reason to, Fizz.

[Carl]

Who wouldn`t want a manic-depressive drunk stoner for a wife.

[franksolich]

I side with the husband. The lesson here is, "Give the man a reason to respect you."

Spending the grocery money on weed is not a way to earn respect.
Cutting your hair into a buzz cut is not going to turn his eye.
Holding no job, doing nothing all day, giving him a slovenly house to return to each night garners NO respect.

Husband doesn't respect you because he has no reason to, Fizz.

Oh now Mr Mannn, you're not as observant as you usually are.

Which is okay; none of us is perfect.

Anyway, thunderthighs is the breadwinner, supervisor at a telephonic call-center; flubby hubby goes from job-to-job with vast spans of unemployment, because he's "too depressed" to work.  Actually, he's just lazy, and thunderthighs enables him.  She's got such a bad inferiority complex she thinks only losers could like her.

[I_B_Perky]

Oh now Mr Mannn, you're not as observant as you usually are.

Which is okay; none of us is perfect.

Anyway, thunderthighs is the breadwinner, supervisor at a telephonic call-center; flubby hubby goes from job-to-job with vast spans of unemployment, because he's "too depressed" to work.  Actually, he's just lazy, and thunderthighs enables him.  She's got such a bad inferiority complex she thinks only losers could like her.

At one time she was a halfway decent looking gal from the pics I saw. Not arm candy and not butt ugly. Normal looking. Now? Not so much.  Beggars can't be choosers.  Not to mention she is a liberal... equates to being about half insane... so real men, the ones that take care of their families, want to build a life together, want nothing to do with her. Probably the best she could get.