If we worried what the DUmmies thought of us, there would be no site. We offer our condolences and move on. 1SBM would gladly jail or kill each of us on his best day, so I am not concerned with how he regards us on our worst.
Our public relations of course concerns me; I want everybody to think well of us.
But then we get hit by one of these "can't win no matter what one does" situations.....
By the end of the day though, I finally figure, "**** this, **** the primitives," and move on.