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OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« on: March 12, 2015, 06:12:32 PM »
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Study: Being Nice to Women Is a Sign of Sexism
If you’re a man who smiles at women and makes an effort to be kind to them, you’re probably an “insidious” and “treacherous” sexist, according to a study conducted by researchers from Northeastern University in Boston.

Seriously.

After observing 27 people playing Trivial Pursuit, the researchers determined that these kind of behaviors — previously known as “chivalry” — were actually signs of what’s called “benevolent sexism.”

In other words: Men who think that women deserve to be treated well often also think that women should be treated particularly well because they’re women. This, they explain, perpetuates gender inequality. Offering your jacket to a shivering women isn’t helping her — it’s hurting her by perpetuating the patriarchal idea that a woman is more likely to be cold than you are just because she’s a woman.

Read more at: http://www.nationalreview.com/article/415256/study-being-nice-women-sign-sexism-katherine-timpf
New post, none of the comments really stand out. But it is the sheer stupidity of feminist thought that amazes me. Remember the fart rape thread? same thing a feminist came up with that too.

The insanity is breath taking.

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #1 on: March 12, 2015, 06:21:39 PM »
Is "WOMAN, get your ass in the kitchen and make me a sandwich" sexist??????
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #2 on: March 12, 2015, 06:33:42 PM »
The moral of this story is when you play Trivial Pursuit with women and when one gets a correct answer you punch her in the mouth that way they will see you as a really upstanding guy and definitely dating material.  O-)
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #3 on: March 12, 2015, 07:05:20 PM »
Is "WOMAN, get your ass in the kitchen and make me a sandwich" sexist??????

Apparently so, if you say "Please" along with it.
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #4 on: March 12, 2015, 07:26:42 PM »
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Study: Being Nice to Women Is a Sign of Sexism
If you’re a man who smiles at women and makes an effort to be kind to them, you’re probably an “insidious” and “treacherous” sexist, according to a study conducted by researchers from Northeastern University in Boston.

Seriously.

After observing 27 people playing Trivial Pursuit, the researchers determined that these kind of behaviors — previously known as “chivalry” — were actually signs of what’s called “benevolent sexism.”

In other words: Men who think that women deserve to be treated well often also think that women should be treated particularly well because they’re women. This, they explain, perpetuates gender inequality. Offering your jacket to a shivering women isn’t helping her — it’s hurting her by perpetuating the patriarchal idea that a woman is more likely to be cold than you are just because she’s a woman.

Read more at: http://www.nationalreview.com/article/415256/study-being-nice-women-sign-sexism-katherine-timpf

OK dummie... how about the next time instead of holding the door for the nice lady I just slam it in her face?  Happy now?

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #5 on: March 12, 2015, 08:37:02 PM »
Oh boy, the feminazis have shown up to the thread. Like moths to a flame.
let me see if I can find some good ones.

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #6 on: March 12, 2015, 08:49:57 PM »
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2. The doors of DU He refers to the Klu Klux Klams mega fight with the men at DU. Opening doors for a gal is SEXIST.

People are strange.
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6. Heh, some there still hate me over the whole doors thing

Those were the days.
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10. Those days aren't so long past, my friend...

Your sustained door-opening 'arguments' were rather ridiculous in light of the fact that many people (not just women-people) pointed out the difference between just opening a ****ing door for somebody and opening it with an agenda.

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #7 on: March 12, 2015, 09:00:20 PM »
My experience and observations is that most feminist women rather like chivalry when the dinner check hits the table.

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #8 on: March 12, 2015, 09:03:42 PM »
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5. The best thing to do is ignore feminist crap like this. Do what you know is right.

If you're nice to a gal, you are sexist.
If you are mean to a gal, you are sexist.

See my sig line, there is a link to a feminist who says male farts are the same as rape. Fart rape. for reals!
Feminists are full of bad advice. Rape culture is a myth. Feminists have no real clue.

Feminist rules make simple human interaction impossible and toxic.

My advice: Ignore feminists and do what you know is right.
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11. Rape culture is not a myth.
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13. Yes it is. Rape is not enshrined in our culture. Its a myth.

Sports Illustrated Swimsuit issue is NOT rape culture.
Spider Woman comic books are not rape culture.
Farts are not rape.
Manspreading is not male dominance.
MRAs are not a threat to women.
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16. Whatever you say, Mann.

Except I'm a woman and I have a different experience of all of those things you list than you do.
normally the girls don't fold so easy, but they've spent so much time out of the kitchen (a girl's natural environment) that they cannot float a reasonable argument. We have to take their word...just because.
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20. Maybe you should move
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30. Hyper sensitive?

Because she doesn't like violent crime?

Move? WTF? Love it or leave it, in this case it is not the country but rape?
I'm with Da mann on this one. You sound hyper sensitive to me.


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26. Move where?

Ain't I an American with all (some) of the freedoms (like speech) that come along with the good fortune to be a citizen of the USA?
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38. Yeah. Hey, move to someplace less rapey!!

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #9 on: March 12, 2015, 09:06:57 PM »
something that cannot be said on DU:
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19. The hidden truth in all this is that chicks LOVE assholes.

They hate good guys.
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27. The real hidden 'truth' is that chicks

grow up.

Yes, to be wise old hens. That love assholes.

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #10 on: March 12, 2015, 09:07:45 PM »
 :???: :wtf2:
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #11 on: March 12, 2015, 09:16:21 PM »
Is "WOMAN, get your ass in the kitchen and make me a sandwich" sexist??????
Why, yes, Johnny. Yes it is.

You must be specific as to the type of sammich you desire the womanfolk to fix for you. Next time, try yelling "Woman! Get you lazy butt back in the kitchen and fix me a HAM sammich. With mustard this time. And beer me."

Doesn't that sound nicer, being very specific so the little lady doesn't have to GUESS and then run her chances at getting another "disciplining".

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #12 on: March 12, 2015, 09:52:27 PM »
Is it sexist to tell a man to put the toilet seat down when he's done?  Is it sexist for me to offer the crew of guys a beer after they've worked all day? 

I don't care about the first one, I can put the seat down.  I don't care if anyone is offended by the second, and I ain't offering wine coolers.

And, I'll continue to ask my guy friends and co-workers to kill the big spiders we come across.  But, leave the snakes to me.   :-)

Ee gads.  Those women's libbers are an odd bunch.

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #13 on: March 12, 2015, 10:10:08 PM »
Is it sexist to tell a man to put the toilet seat down when he's done?  Is it sexist for me to offer the crew of guys a beer after they've worked all day? 

I don't care about the first one, I can put the seat down.  I don't care if anyone is offended by the second, and I ain't offering wine coolers.

And, I'll continue to ask my guy friends and co-workers to kill the big spiders we come across.  But, leave the snakes to me.   :-)

Ee gads.  Those women's libbers are an odd bunch.

You had me at "beer"  :drool: :heart: :blowkiss:

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #14 on: March 12, 2015, 11:55:01 PM »
Good thread Mr. Mannn !
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #15 on: March 13, 2015, 01:50:41 AM »
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Study: Being Nice to Women Is a Sign of Sexism

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #16 on: March 13, 2015, 02:06:42 AM »
Aw Cripes.
Next thing you know, the KKKlam scrunts will bitch if you let them have the top.
Sheesh, what a pack of whynny wymenz.
Anyone that would/could, do one one of those, deserves a medal and a free course of antibiotics.
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #17 on: March 13, 2015, 03:59:43 AM »
OK, here is another one from a different thread at DI, but it fits in this theme.
its about MRAs. Men's Rights Associations.
MRAs started to give men a fighting chance in divorce court, but they have sprouted up in colleges all across the USA where Feminists have made campus life so toxic you cannot ask a girl out without legal representation.

any how this chick stated that the Southern Poverty Law Center has labeled MRAs to be terrorist organizations.
Feminists cannot tolerate anyone disagreeing with them, so they will lie their hearts out to demonize all who merely disagree.

so get a load of this:
http://www.discussionist.com/?com=view_post&forum=1016&pid=83042
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You need to provide evidence that women earn more. This will come as news to the federal government, the WHO, and every organization that collects data on these issues. Every single accounting of earnings in every nation across the world shows that men earn more. No where do women earn more. You're completely full of it, and the fact that you have to so distort reality shows your ideology to be fraudulent.

There most certainly are MRAs who argue that rape should be legal. One got some press just a couple of weeks ago. There are websites full of MRAs talking about killing women for kicks, and more than a few of them have acted on it, including the Santa Barbara guy and the Norwegian mass murderer. Some of those guys have killed women and uploaded pictures on to the MRA websites, to great applause from the rest of the vermin. That is what who you defend, while you revile a renowned organization like SPLC. Yeah, they are the ones who cramped the style of the KKK. It makes sense you wouldn't think highly of them. Better to stand with mass murderers, rapists, and killers.

When exactly did feminism accomplish enough? 1920, or was that too far for you? 1964? Is that when black people got too much as well? All these uppity people who think they are actually human, when they aren't even white and male. The nerve of them. You know who else thinks they should have rights now? The gays. The modern world is such a horrendous place with all these people thinking they should have rights. The world just isn't right anymore. Everyone thinking that they should have a fair shot. It's an outrage.

1/3 of women in the word are beaten and raped. The vast majority live in poverty, but they have too much. The rights that matter don't include the right to be free of domestic violence or rape. It's a man's right to knock around uppity bitches when he feels like it. How is he supposed to feel like a real man when feminists are muscling in on his territory by working to see domestic violence and rape prosecuted. It's gotten so bad, that as many as three out of every 100 rapists actually do jail time. Can you imagine? Rapists having to go to jail? Those feminists are so out of control, they think that violent predators should go to jail. The nerve of them.

No normal human being has any trouble figuring out if another person wants to have sex. They simply say so. There is nothing complicated about consent. A woman says yes if she consents. It's not rocket science. If she is passed out and can't say yes, it's rape. I know it's totally unfair that men can't just rape unconscious women without running a tiny chance of going to jail. Feminists have totally ruined everything. How is a loser supposed to get laid if he has to worry about finding someone who actually wants to have sex with him? That's all the fault of uppity feminists who think women's bodies actually belong to themselves.


I will go back to the OP and address the original question. My answer remains the same: MRAS are, pathetic, whiny losers. They are men who refuse to accept responsibility for their own situation in life, unwilling to get the education and skills necessary to compete on a somewhat even playing field, and they blame everyone but themselves for that. They are desperate to turn the clock back to another time when women were property. That is what they want. They will not get it. They lament a past time when being male and white was enough, when they didn't have to worry about competence and skills. Time will move forward, and they will be left on the dustbin of history, angry about progress and that they actually have too work to make something of themselves. That is who MRAS are, pathetic, whiny losers. What they are not is men.


Much to the MRA's dismay, progress marches on, leaving them behind as they whine and moan themselves into irrelevance.

You have to demented or evil to believe this. This is bigotry. Pure and simple, hate-filled bigotry.
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #18 on: March 13, 2015, 08:13:14 AM »
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5. The best thing to do is ignore feminist crap like this. Do what you know is right.

If you're nice to a gal, you are sexist.
If you are mean to a gal, you are sexist.

See my sig line, there is a link to a feminist who says male farts are the same as rape. Fart rape. for reals!
Feminists are full of bad advice. Rape culture is a myth. Feminists have no real clue.

Feminist rules make simple human interaction impossible and toxic.

My advice: Ignore feminists and do what you know is right.

Smart guy! Wonder how he wandered in there!  :-)

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My experience, even now, is that normal women appreciate men being kind and polite. And I haven't had a woman respond rudely to a door being held for them since, well, since I could open a door and hold it open. I know, it's shocking!
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #19 on: March 13, 2015, 11:02:31 AM »
My experience, even now, is that normal women appreciate men being kind and polite. And I haven't had a woman respond rudely to a door being held for them since, well, since I could open a door and hold it open. I know, it's shocking!

Yes, yes we do. And, if I'm at the door first, I'll hold it for you!

Also, I make a mean sammich!  :-)
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #20 on: March 13, 2015, 12:36:21 PM »
Yes, yes we do. And, if I'm at the door first, I'll hold it for you!

Also, I make a mean sammich!  :-)

I'm with you. I hold the door open for ANYONE who is behind me (or coming in as I'm leaving...etc). It's called "being polite" and "having manners"...words that obviously have no meaning to DUmmies. I guess when I offer to help elderly people get things from high shelves at the grocery store I'm being hateful to my elders?
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #21 on: March 13, 2015, 12:45:04 PM »
Yes, yes we do. And, if I'm at the door first, I'll hold it for you!

Also, I make a mean sammich!  :-)

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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #22 on: March 13, 2015, 12:48:53 PM »
I'm with you. I hold the door open for ANYONE who is behind me (or coming in as I'm leaving...etc). It's called "being polite" and "having manners"...words that obviously have no meaning to DUmmies. I guess when I offer to help elderly people get things from high shelves at the grocery store I'm being hateful to my elders?

I do that too! What rotten people we are, Dixie!  :-)
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #23 on: March 13, 2015, 01:06:51 PM »
I do that too! What rotten people we are, Dixie!  :-)

The world could do with much more "rottenness" of that sort! FWIW, if some one is reasonably close behind me, I hold the door for them, regardless of sex or age.
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Re: OK, so now it is sexist to be NICE to a woman.
« Reply #24 on: March 13, 2015, 03:48:41 PM »
The world could do with much more "rottenness" of that sort! FWIW, if some one is reasonably close behind me, I hold the door for them, regardless of sex or age.

Same here.
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