Not to be outdone...
One has to be cautious, and somewhat skeptical, when reading the primitives' depictions of their parents.
There's no doubt there's been bad parents in the world, but pause to remember that the primitives like to blame their own flaws, their own problems, on other people, and now-deceased parents provide a handy whipping-boy.
I wouldn't say
all the primitives' descriptions of their "bad" parents are inaccurate, but I'm guessing many are, and even the ones that are reasonably accurate, are hyped up somewhat.
That's the way primitives are.