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Title: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Freeper on March 31, 2013, 06:18:19 PM
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Lady Freedom Returns (3,333 posts)

My SO has no Idea!


 
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I have B.A. in Communications from MSSU. But I lost my copies of my transcripts due to the tornado and my flash drive with the electric copy getting stolen at a shelter. I have become delinquent in the payments of the loans due to no job since May 22, 2011. To get the transcripts I have to contact a clearinghouse and set up a payment plan. According to them I must get a paycheck so they can use the numbers on it to start to take payments off of it or my bank account number ( I don't have a bank account).

My SO keeps showing me jobs in my field and is yelling at me to apply. "Stop wasting your education" he says. Those jobs want copies of my transcripts. I can't give them what I no longer have. It like he is putting salt in a very open wound. He won't listen or understand. For now all I can do is pray for one of the fast food or clerk jobs to call. I am hurting so bad and he just won't stop and see what is going on.

So many are in a very similar boat right now in this country. It is a catch 22 for so many, need proof of education to get the job they are trained for, but can't get it due to not working and going delinquent. Thus, can not get the paperwork to change things.

And I am sure they to get to hear it from loved ones. But it still makes you feel alone in this world.

http://sync.democraticunderground.com/10022595364

Then they wonder why we think they aren't that bright.

I can't believe this DUmmy is having such a hard time during this massive recovery. Unemployment is at record lows, gas prices are high which shows how great the economy is, so I aint buying she can't get a job.

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Kalidurga (4,693 posts)
2. Been there done that....

I had to work as a cashier for a year to get my payments up to date so I could go to school and finish my degree. Since graduating whatever I have that is kicking my butt went into overdrive and now I have hypertension, probably diabetes (I just had labs done a couple days ago) my joints started hurting like a bleep. I wish that was all, but anyway long story short I can't work right now and my payments are going to go delinquent again and I won't be able to go back to school in the fall to start finishing a four year. Unless I claim hardship due to illness to put off having to pay for now. Which I will probably do, but it seems kind of a big risk for me to go back to school anyway, knowing how big a risk it is due to my health issues.

OMG hypertension and diabetes, yeah there is no way this primitive can work.  :whatever:

I've been working with hypertension for years, have achy joints, and am close to being a diabetic. My DR is such a hardass that he won't recommend disability and has this crazy idea that if I take meds I can still work.  :-)

I also enjoy the tale of woe of having to work as a cashier for a full year, what you don't get full retirement after a full year on the job? Come work with me for a day DUmmy you would run screaming by 9am.  :rotf:




 
Title: primitive feels alone in world
Post by: franksolich on March 31, 2013, 06:21:06 PM
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022595364

Oh my.

This is the primitive who left Joplin, Missouri, after that tornado a couple of years ago, saying she was going to hike from there to Seattle, Washington.  She got as far as Springfield, Missouri, and then quit; I dunno why.

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Lady Freedom Returns (3,333 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:39 PM

My SO has no Idea!

I have B.A. in Communications from MSSU. But I lost my copies of my transcripts due to the tornado and my flash drive with the electric copy getting stolen at a shelter. I have become delinquent in the payments of the loans due to no job since May 22, 2011. To get the transcripts I have to contact a clearinghouse and set up a payment plan. According to them I must get a paycheck so they can use the numbers on it to start to take payments off of it or my bank account number ( I don't have a bank account).
 
My SO keeps showing me jobs in my field and is yelling at me to apply. "Stop wasting your education" he says. Those jobs want copies of my transcripts. I can't give them what I no longer have. It like he is putting salt in a very open wound. He won't listen or understand. For now all I can do is pray for one of the fast food or clerk jobs to call. I am hurting so bad and he just won't stop and see what is going on.
 
So many are in a very similar boat right now in this country. It is a catch 22 for so many, need proof of education to get the job they are trained for, but can't get it due to not working and going delinquent. Thus, can not get the paperwork to change things.
 
And I am sure they to get to hear it from loved ones. But it still makes you feel alone in this world.

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Kalidurga (4,693 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:55 PM

2. Been there done that....

I had to work as a cashier for a year to get my payments up to date so I could go to school and finish my degree. Since graduating whatever I have that is kicking my butt went into overdrive and now I have hypertension, probably diabetes (I just had labs done a couple days ago) my joints started hurting like a bleep. I wish that was all, but anyway long story short I can't work right now and my payments are going to go delinquent again and I won't be able to go back to school in the fall to start finishing a four year. Unless I claim hardship due to illness to put off having to pay for now. Which I will probably do, but it seems kind of a big risk for me to go back to school anyway, knowing how big a risk it is due to my health issues.

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nadinbrzezinski (117,966 posts)       Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:59 PM

3. Hugs

All I can do

^^^no, it's not; the cousin could send her a nice check too, but is too miserly to give a dime.

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Ruby the Liberal (23,285 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:04 PM

4. You aren't applying because of transcripts?

I have never been asked by a potential employer for transcripts. Only graduate schools. Don't let that hold you back.

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Cronus Protagonist (15,022 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:09 PM

6. Yup.

And even if one did, you would be working in the job and tell them you'll get the transcripts as soon as the governing body sends them to you. Use the paycheck to pay for it and get yourself re-established.
 
Or, you could try my method and completely ignore your college education and do something productive with your life instead, like giving gifts to children... you don't need a degree to do that!

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Brickbat (13,956 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:06 PM

5. What jobs want transcripts?

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jazzimov (248 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:11 PM

7. Contact MSSU. They should have copies of your transcripts.

I had to nadin "MSSU;" the primitives are so provincial, thinking everybody knows everything in their own little part of the world.  It's Missouri Southern State University in Joplin.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Freeper on March 31, 2013, 06:28:02 PM
Looks like Frank and I were reading the same thread.  :-)
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Gern on March 31, 2013, 06:40:07 PM
How the hell can you not find a job for almost two years other than either sheer hubris ("I'm too good to work at RiteAid") or sheer laziness?

It's unfathomable to me.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: franksolich on March 31, 2013, 06:40:17 PM
Looks like Frank and I were reading the same thread.  :-)

Yeah.

I'm not as quick as you are.

But whatever; it's all good.

Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: GOBUCKS on March 31, 2013, 06:45:40 PM
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Those jobs want copies of my transcripts. I can't give them what I no longer have. It like he is putting salt in a very open wound. He won't listen or understand. For now all I can do is pray for one of the fast food or clerk jobs to call.

So you need copies of your transcript to get a job? Really?

And does the DUmmy really think she qualifies for anything that pays more than fast food or a clerk job? After taking the easiest possible path through college?

Not in the 0conomy.

Title: Re: primitive feels alone in world
Post by: DumbAss Tanker on March 31, 2013, 06:47:37 PM
http://www.democraticunderground.com/10022595364

Oh my.

This is the primitive who left Joplin, Missouri, after that tornado a couple of years ago, saying she was going to hike from there to Seattle, Washington.  She got as far as Springfield, Missouri, and then quit; I dunno why.
...

...which, relative to Joplin, is in nearly the completely opposite direction, if one's destination is the State of Washington.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: I_B_Perky on March 31, 2013, 07:01:14 PM
http://sync.democraticunderground.com/10022595364

Then they wonder why we think they aren't that bright.

I can't believe this DUmmy is having such a hard time during this massive recovery. Unemployment is at record lows, gas prices are high which shows how great the economy is, so I aint buying she can't get a job.

OMG hypertension and diabetes, yeah there is no way this primitive can work.  :whatever:

I've been working with hypertension for years, have achy joints, and am close to being a diabetic. My DR is such a hardass that he won't recommend disability and has this crazy idea that if I take meds I can still work. 

I also enjoy the tale of woe of having to work as a cashier for a full year, what you don't get full retirement after a full year on the job? Come work with me for a day DUmmy you would run screaming by 9am.  :rotf:
 

Same here Freep except I don't have bad joints, I got bad feet.  My doc would laugh at me if I told him I wanted to get on disability.

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jazzimov (248 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 07:11 PM

7. Contact MSSU. They should have copies of your transcripts.

The dummie can't do that because then the dummie would have he/she/it's so called impediment to being gainfully employed removed and then have to tell he/she/it's hump mate that the problem is with the dummie.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: longview on March 31, 2013, 07:08:17 PM
I've never been asked for transcripts, nor do I ask to see anyones.  I think this chica is full of doo doo.

But even if not, can't one just call the university, pay some dollars and get an official transcript? 
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: DumbAss Tanker on March 31, 2013, 07:10:33 PM
I've never been asked for transcripts, nor do I ask to see anyones.  I think this chica is full of doo doo.

But even if not, can't one just call the university, pay some dollars and get an official transcript? 

Not absolutely positive, but I believe one of the consequences of being declared delinquent on a Federally-backed student loan is that they freeze your access to transcripts.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: USA4ME on March 31, 2013, 07:13:04 PM
What does it say about a Communications major that can't explain to others what's going on?

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Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: longview on March 31, 2013, 07:15:50 PM
Not absolutely positive, but I believe one of the consequences of being declared delinquent on a Federally-backed student loan is that they freeze your access to transcripts.

That makes sense.  I also forgot the DUmmy factor.  Reasonable people, if they can't pay their student loans, notify the holder and get a forebearance because it would be for legitimate reasons.  Not just stop paying.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: I_B_Perky on March 31, 2013, 07:19:02 PM
Not absolutely positive, but I believe one of the consequences of being declared delinquent on a Federally-backed student loan is that they freeze your access to transcripts.

Doesn't surprise me DAT. It makes sense.  Another unintended consequence of the liberal wet dream. Banks cannot force a university/college/whatever to do anything but the federal government can. Wait until the fed government starts taking the dummies tax refunds to repay student loans. That there is gonna be real hilarious.   :cheersmate: :cheersmate:
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Mr Mannn on March 31, 2013, 07:27:58 PM
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Lady Freedom Returns (3,333 posts)    Sun Mar 31, 2013, 06:39 PM
My SO keeps showing me jobs in my field and is yelling at me to apply. "Stop wasting your education" he says.

Another DUmmy soon to be DUmped by a boyfriend. Neome was DUmped as well. What do both of these gals have in common? They are both lazy ass leeches living off another. Both will be kicked out. Both are looking to hop on the Disability bandwagon. ----in short they are both DUmmies.

Lady Freedom, you will die alone and unloved. No sympathy from me.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: I_B_Perky on March 31, 2013, 07:35:59 PM
Another DUmmy soon to be DUmped by a boyfriend. Neome was DUmped as well. What do both of these gals have in common? They are both lazy ass leeches living off another. Both will be kicked out. Both are looking to hop on the Disability bandwagon. ----in short they are both DUmmies.

Lady Freedom, you will die alone and unloved. No sympathy from me.

I'm reminded of this song Mr Mannn:

[youtube=425,350]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=-zKSLPYfnIc[/youtube]
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: docstew on March 31, 2013, 07:42:52 PM
I call BS. I've gotten transcripts multiple times since I left college, and I still have student loan debt. As long as you don't owe money to THE SCHOOL, they'll send your official transcripts for a nominal fee of around $20
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: NHSparky on March 31, 2013, 07:56:53 PM
I've been asked--ONCE.  I didn't have them with me.  All I did was sign a release, much like one signs an SF-180 to release military records (which I, unlike John Kerry, have done.)
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: SSG Snuggle Bunny on March 31, 2013, 08:05:48 PM
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My SO keeps showing me jobs in my field and is yelling at me to apply.

I think in the world of Proglodytes this qualifies as abusive.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: franksolich on March 31, 2013, 08:07:57 PM
I think in the world of Proglodytes this qualifies as abusive.

I like that new word you coined.

It's great.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: NHSparky on March 31, 2013, 08:10:06 PM
I think in the world of Proglodytes this qualifies as abusive.

Only a matter of time before that's added to Oxford English Dictionary.  Well played, sir.  Well played.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Delmar on March 31, 2013, 08:10:26 PM
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Lady Freedom Returns (3,340 posts)

My SO has no Idea!


 
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I have B.A. in Communications from MSSU. But I lost my copies of my transcripts due to the tornado and my flash drive with the electric copy getting stolen at a shelter. I have become delinquent in the payments of the loans due to no job since May 22, 2011. To get the transcripts I have to contact a clearinghouse and set up a payment plan. According to them I must get a paycheck so they can use the numbers on it to start to take payments off of it or my bank account number ( I don't have a bank account).

Pathetic act-of-God tornado excuse, flash drive stolen out of her shopping cart, no job in nearly two years, and no bank account.  Coming up with the missing college transcripts will not help this hapless reject, she should be grateful if she finds a minimum wage job pushing a broom.    
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: I_B_Perky on March 31, 2013, 08:21:18 PM
I think in the world of Proglodytes this qualifies as abusive.

 :lol: :lol: :lol:

H5 Sarge!!!
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Texacon on March 31, 2013, 08:27:30 PM
She can't get them because they don't exist and she doesn't want to fess up to the ...  SO, whatever the hell that is.

KC
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Evil_Conservative on March 31, 2013, 08:31:22 PM
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Or, you could try my method and completely ignore your college education and do something productive with your life instead, like giving gifts to children... you don't need a degree to do that!

Please tell me this is a mole.  :rotf:
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Traveshamockery on March 31, 2013, 08:43:13 PM
Please tell me this is a mole.  :rotf:



That's the reply that had me shaking my head.  Someone has a job giving gifts to children?  Brownies baked with marijuana and passed out at schools don't qualify as gifts, DUmmie. 
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Big Dog on March 31, 2013, 08:44:02 PM
Pathetic act-of-God tornado excuse, flash drive stolen out of her shopping cart, no job in nearly two years, and no bank account.  Coming up with the missing college transcripts will not help this hapless reject, she should be grateful if she finds a minimum wage job pushing a broom.    

She can make better money blowing truck drivers out at the Joplin 44 Truck stop on the Interstate. Hell, she could earn enough money to pay for Listerine, dental floss, some Little Debbie Swiss Rolls, and her transcripts!
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: 98ZJUSMC on March 31, 2013, 09:16:57 PM
Not absolutely positive, but I believe one of the consequences of being declared delinquent on a Federally-backed student loan is that they freeze your access to transcripts.

Huh.  Didn't know that.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: thundley4 on March 31, 2013, 09:23:10 PM
Huh.  Didn't know that.

It's Obama's fault.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: DumbAss Tanker on March 31, 2013, 09:59:13 PM
I call BS. I've gotten transcripts multiple times since I left college, and I still have student loan debt. As long as you don't owe money to THE SCHOOL, they'll send your official transcripts for a nominal fee of around $20

Dollars to doughnuts you have debt, but aren't in default on it, though, unlike the DUmmie.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: docstew on March 31, 2013, 10:32:52 PM
Dollars to doughnuts you have debt, but aren't in default on it, though, unlike the DUmmie.

I was at one point, but as of now, no, I'm not
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: chitownchica on April 01, 2013, 02:14:14 AM


That's the reply that had me shaking my head.  Someone has a job giving gifts to children?  Brownies baked with marijuana and passed out at schools don't qualify as gifts, DUmmie. 

You and EC are cracking me up!
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Karin on April 01, 2013, 08:03:26 AM
Giving gifts to children!   :lmao:  Quite the lucrative field. 

For a communications major, the DUmmie has atrocious grammar and sentence structure.  Anything she applies for is going to have the whiff of RSmith all over it. 
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Ballygrl on April 01, 2013, 11:40:59 AM
1st of all this doesn't bode well for the relationship, you're starting off on the wrong foot by lying, and liars always get caught, 2nd of all you're not applying for jobs in your chosen field not because of your transcripts being lost, but because you're delinquent on on your student loans, and you know if you get a job in your chosen field that your pay will be subject to garnishment and your bosses will see they have a not so reliable employee.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: GOBUCKS on April 01, 2013, 12:24:30 PM
She can make better money blowing truck drivers out at the Joplin 44 Truck stop on the Interstate.
That's the job she wants. It's a common occupation for a BA in Communications. But truckstops require hookers to produce their transcripts. In the 0conomy they can be selective.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: hillneck on April 01, 2013, 02:27:39 PM
Maybe her and the dark angel primitive can hook up and discuss relationship advice.    :rotf:
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: njpines on April 01, 2013, 02:33:37 PM
That's the job she wants. It's a common occupation for a BA in Communications. But truckstops require hookers to produce their transcripts. In the 0conomy they can be selective.

Hey!!!!!!  :rant:

(Actually I have a BS which is more fitting!  :-) )

Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: delilahmused on April 01, 2013, 02:47:26 PM
I'm confused...does she have a degree or not? If she needs to go back to school to finish, wouldn't that indicate she doesn't have a degree? Or is she going for an MA? Is that where she learns sentence structure?

Cindie
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Vagabond on April 01, 2013, 03:00:36 PM
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Lady Freedom Returns (3,333 posts)

My SO has no Idea!

LFR, it is you that doesn't have any idea.  I've had surgeries due to injuries on both ankles and my right knee.  On the days my joints don't hurt, my broken bones do, when they don't, the scars I've collected hurt.  All that, and I endured a layoff.  I was unhappy with it, but you know what it isn't that you get knocked down, it's that you get back up.  I started a business with everyone telling me it was a bad idea, but just starting I'm already covering three-quarters of my pay from before.  Don't tell me what you can't do.

Laying down and whining about why you can't do something is easy.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: DumbAss Tanker on April 01, 2013, 05:35:32 PM
I'm confused...does she have a degree or not? If she needs to go back to school to finish, wouldn't that indicate she doesn't have a degree? Or is she going for an MA? Is that where she learns sentence structure?

Cindie

Doesn't sound like it, Cindie.  I'm not even sure she really got the two-year degree "For reals," let alone the Bachelor's.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Duke Nukum on April 01, 2013, 07:39:14 PM
If the government pays for your education, they can do pretty much anything they want to screw up your career.

If you don't like the terms the Devil offers, do not sign the contract.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: BlueStateSaint on April 02, 2013, 04:29:02 AM
If the government pays for your education, they can do pretty much anything they want to screw up your career.

If you don't like the terms the Devil offers, do not sign the contract.

Also, Satan the government can change said 'contract' at any time.
Title: Re: My SO has no Idea!
Post by: Karin on April 02, 2013, 07:36:51 AM
That's very true, and terrifying, IMO.  I believe I would run screaming into the night rather than take government "help." 

I know a fellow around here, who's mildly retarded, yet somewhat independent.  He's about 70.  He's been barely scraping by all his life with a little disability money.  He recently won $10K in the lottery.  State came sniffing around, determined that made him "rich," and now he's in a heap of financial trouble.  Which he is not really able to understand.