The Conservative Cave

The Bar => The Lounge => Topic started by: Ptarmigan on July 29, 2008, 07:20:27 PM

Title: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Ptarmigan on July 29, 2008, 07:20:27 PM
There are things you do not talk about at the dinner table. You know, politics, money, religion, and sex. This rule well applies at parties, weddings, etc. What is the touchiest and/or most depressing topic you can talk about at a party?

For me, they are:
World Trade Center/September 11, 2001
Natural Disasters, especially really bad ones like Hurricane Katrina or Tropical Cyclone Nargis
Joseph Stalin/Adolf Hitler
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About Parties
Post by: rich_t on July 29, 2008, 07:28:55 PM
There are things you do not talk about at the dinner table. You know, politics, money, religion, and sex. This rule well applies at parties, weddings, etc. What is the touchiest and/or most depressing topic you can talk about at a party?

For me, they are:
World Trade Center/September 11, 2001
Natural Disasters, especially really bad ones like Hurricane Katrina or Tropical Cyclone Nargis
Joseph Stalin/Adolf Hitler

I don't have a problem with discussing any of the examples you posted.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About Parties
Post by: Chris_ on July 29, 2008, 07:28:59 PM
A grown man pretending to be a bird who hates rabbits on the internet?  I imagine that might be an uncomfortable topic.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Ptarmigan on July 29, 2008, 07:34:09 PM

I don't have a problem with discussing any of the examples you posted.

I will admit I have talked about the September 11th terrorist attack, more specifically the World Trade Center at parties a lot due to the fact that I like New York a lot. What really gets to me sometimes is that some people have a nervous smile or laugh on their face. I take real offense at it because 3,000 people died and the World Trade Center is destroyed. Sometimes I do a reality check on myself, "What the hell am I doing? This is the worst attack on America."  :( :bawl:
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Chris_ on July 29, 2008, 07:35:33 PM
"Is my deodorant working?"

"My doctor said my ringworm should clear up in a week or 2."

"What do you mean that ugly, ball-busting bulldyke is your wife?"

"****ing Chlamydia, who would have thunk it?"
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Ptarmigan on July 29, 2008, 07:36:08 PM
A grown man pretending to be a bird who hates rabbits on the internet?  I imagine that might be an uncomfortable topic.

Not really touchy for me.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Duke Nukum on July 29, 2008, 07:37:17 PM
At a party, I try to avoid people who aren't there to have fun.  Unless it is like a pity party or something.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Miss Mia on July 29, 2008, 07:37:53 PM
Depression and/or my alcoholic mother.

Two subjects that aren't pleasant when brought up. 



Those aren't usually brought up though, cause I'm a happy drunk.   :-)
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Chris_ on July 29, 2008, 07:37:57 PM
A grown man pretending to be a bird who hates rabbits on the internet?  I imagine that might be an uncomfortable topic.

Not really touchy for me.

Touchy?  Maybe not.  Stupid?  Definitely.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Ptarmigan on July 29, 2008, 07:39:38 PM
At a party, I try to avoid people who aren't there to have fun.  Unless it is like a pity party or something.

I have a lot of fun at parties despite it all.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Chris_ on July 29, 2008, 07:40:18 PM
Depression and/or my alcoholic mother.

Two subjects that aren't pleasant when brought up. 



Those aren't usually brought up though, cause I'm a happy drunk.   :-)

 :naughty:
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Chris_ on July 29, 2008, 07:40:56 PM
I know at my sister's wedding rehearsal dinner, everyone was pretty much wasted on the potent margaritas provided by the caterer, and things did get WAY out of hand.

Since my parents are divorced, it got rather awkward when my drunk as hell father started in on a discussion regarding my deceased stepfather (died of a heart attack).    My sis and I may have been tipsy ourselves, but with our mom there, we were PISSED OFF!  :censored:

Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About Parties
Post by: Duke Nukum on July 29, 2008, 07:41:06 PM
A grown man pretending to be a bird who hates rabbits on the internet?  I imagine that might be an uncomfortable topic.
Dude, I don't think he's pretending.  Some birds can talk so I assume some can type.  It's just another form of mimicry.

And while I have never seen a rabbit-hating bird, I have seen crows chasing after squirrels.  One time it reminded me of that scene in North by Northwest where the crop duster was chasing after Carey Grant.

So the idea seems plausible to me.  I mean it is the Internets after all and "here," reality is what one can get away with.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Miss Mia on July 29, 2008, 07:42:02 PM
Depression and/or my alcoholic mother.

Two subjects that aren't pleasant when brought up. 



Those aren't usually brought up though, cause I'm a happy drunk.   :-)

 :naughty:


Though two weeks ago this guy at the usual Saturday night drunkfest, the downstairs neighbor came up.  He got a 30 minute lecture after he told me he wasn't registered to vote.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About Parties
Post by: Chris_ on July 29, 2008, 07:42:39 PM
A grown man pretending to be a bird who hates rabbits on the internet?  I imagine that might be an uncomfortable topic.
Dude, I don't think he's pretending.  Some birds can talk so I assume some can type.  It's just another form of mimicry.

And while I have never seen a rabbit-hating bird, I have seen crows chasing after squirrels.  One time it reminded me of that scene in North by Northwest where the crop duster was chasing after Carey Grant.

So the idea seems plausible to me.  I mean it is the Internets after all and "here," reality is what one can get away with.

(http://www.unc.edu/courses/jomc050/idog.jpg)
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About Parties
Post by: Duke Nukum on July 29, 2008, 07:43:26 PM
A grown man pretending to be a bird who hates rabbits on the internet?  I imagine that might be an uncomfortable topic.
Dude, I don't think he's pretending.  Some birds can talk so I assume some can type.  It's just another form of mimicry.

And while I have never seen a rabbit-hating bird, I have seen crows chasing after squirrels.  One time it reminded me of that scene in North by Northwest where the crop duster was chasing after Carey Grant.

So the idea seems plausible to me.  I mean it is the Internets after all and "here," reality is what one can get away with.

(http://www.unc.edu/courses/jomc050/idog.jpg)

Just so, just so.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: rich_t on July 29, 2008, 07:44:26 PM

I don't have a problem with discussing any of the examples you posted.

I will admit I have talked about the September 11th terrorist attack, more specifically the World Trade Center at parties a lot due to the fact that I like New York a lot. What really gets to me sometimes is that some people have a nervous smile or laugh on their face. I take real offense at it because 3,000 people died and the World Trade Center is destroyed. Sometimes I do a reality check on myself, "What the hell am I doing? This is the worst attack on America."  :( :bawl:

But in what context did you talk about it?  Did you bring it up "out of the blue" or was in merely part of a progressing conversation that ended up on that topic?

Circumstances matter.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: djones520 on July 29, 2008, 07:47:40 PM
It all depends on who i'm at the party with.  If i'm with good friends, no subject is taboo.  If i'm with relative strangers, I'll probably avoid fire starters like politices, religion, stuff like that.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Chris_ on July 29, 2008, 07:48:40 PM
Depression and/or my alcoholic mother.

Two subjects that aren't pleasant when brought up. 



Those aren't usually brought up though, cause I'm a happy drunk.   :-)

 :naughty:


Though two weeks ago this guy at the usual Saturday night drunkfest, the downstairs neighbor came up.  He got a 30 minute lecture after he told me he wasn't registered to vote.

I dunno, whenever I hear about someone who isn't registered to vote, my first reaction is usually "Thank God".   
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Miss Mia on July 29, 2008, 07:51:52 PM
:rofl:

I dunno, whenever I hear about someone who isn't registered to vote, my first reaction is "Thank God".  :-)


Yeah, I definitely should have gone that route with this one too.  Don't worry, I doubt my lecture changed his mind.  He thought I was flirting with him and after he went in to go to the bathroom, I immediately hooked on to a single guy there and said "we're dating."  LOL
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Ptarmigan on July 29, 2008, 07:54:09 PM

But in what context did you talk about it?  Did you bring it up "out of the blue" or was in merely part of a progressing conversation that ended up on that topic?

Circumstances matter.

Usually when I talk about New York or sometimes out of the blue. 
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Chris_ on July 29, 2008, 07:55:15 PM
:rofl:

I dunno, whenever I hear about someone who isn't registered to vote, my first reaction is "Thank God".  :-)


Yeah, I definitely should have gone that route with this one too.  Don't worry, I doubt my lecture changed his mind.  He thought I was flirting with him and after he went in to go to the bathroom, I immediately hooked on to a single guy there and said "we're dating."  LOL

oooh, that hurts.  :-)
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Miss Mia on July 29, 2008, 07:59:21 PM
:rofl:

I dunno, whenever I hear about someone who isn't registered to vote, my first reaction is "Thank God".  :-)


Yeah, I definitely should have gone that route with this one too.  Don't worry, I doubt my lecture changed his mind.  He thought I was flirting with him and after he went in to go to the bathroom, I immediately hooked on to a single guy there and said "we're dating."  LOL

oooh, that hurts.  :-)


I think he ended up being more embarrassed than anything.  He was heavily intoxicated when he came up to the gathering. 
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: rich_t on July 29, 2008, 08:04:31 PM

But in what context did you talk about it?  Did you bring it up "out of the blue" or was in merely part of a progressing conversation that ended up on that topic?

Circumstances matter.

Usually when I talk about New York or just out of the blue. 

If you say so.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: rich_t on July 29, 2008, 08:05:37 PM
It all depends on who i'm at the party with.  If i'm with good friends, no subject is taboo.  If i'm with relative strangers, I'll probably avoid fire starters like politices, religion, stuff like that.

Good rule of thumb IMO.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Ptarmigan on July 29, 2008, 08:20:46 PM
It all depends on who i'm at the party with.  If i'm with good friends, no subject is taboo.  If i'm with relative strangers, I'll probably avoid fire starters like politices, religion, stuff like that.

I don't really like talking about politics or religion in real life. I do like learning about other people's religions though, but that is a different story.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: rich_t on July 29, 2008, 08:23:32 PM
Ptarmigan, what was your point and/or intent when you started this thread?

 :beer:
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Lacarnut on July 29, 2008, 08:35:50 PM
The last thing I wanted to do at a party is fight or fuss. So I had a few drinks, make that many drinks, listen to the music and dance. 
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Ptarmigan on July 29, 2008, 10:50:56 PM
Ptarmigan, what was your point and/or intent when you started this thread?

 :beer:

Just out of sheer curiousity.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: asdf2231 on July 29, 2008, 11:03:22 PM
It's easy to embarrass yourself at a party...

(http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l307/asdf2231/shortbus/sandman.png)
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Miss Mia on July 29, 2008, 11:06:54 PM
It's easy to embarrass yourself at a party...

(http://i99.photobucket.com/albums/l307/asdf2231/shortbus/sandman.png)


:rofl:
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: JohnnyReb on July 30, 2008, 06:53:30 AM
Let me tell you all about 'my' surgery................
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: jtyangel on July 30, 2008, 07:02:14 AM
Depression and/or my alcoholic mother.

Two subjects that aren't pleasant when brought up. 



Those aren't usually brought up though, cause I'm a happy drunk.   :-)

Yeah, I'd have to say if someone can get me on the topic of the disregard my folks had for me growing up, that usually puts me in a down mood. My grandfather--the topic makes me both happy(he was an incredible man) and sad(he left far too soon from my life--when I was 19--and I still needed him given the first topic that puts me in a funk).

As far as worldly stuff, when I'm with other adult women, I can't stand when all they talk about are their children and mommy stuff. I get bored...fast. Maybe it's because I'm immersed in 'mommy stuff' all day.

As far as the big stuff. I stay away from just about any topic with people inclined to turn it into a personal attack if engaged on something. A lot of wasted energy and it's just going to generate bad feelings in the end.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Toastedturningtidelegs on July 30, 2008, 08:43:01 AM
There are things you do not talk about at the dinner table. You know, politics, money, religion, and sex. This rule well applies at parties, weddings, etc. What is the touchiest and/or most depressing topic you can talk about at a party?

For me, they are:
World Trade Center/September 11, 2001
Natural Disasters, especially really bad ones like Hurricane Katrina or Tropical Cyclone Nargis
Joseph Stalin/Adolf Hitler
Carnies.....They creep me out! :-)...Clowns too..Oh and I will not discuss politics even with other conservatives! I have moonbat friends that will try to engage me in how horrible a president Bush is and I just smile and tell them to make sure they get out to vote in November! :-)
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Uhhuh35 on July 30, 2008, 08:44:56 AM
There are things you do not talk about at the dinner table. You know, politics, money, religion, and sex. This rule well applies at parties, weddings, etc. What is the touchiest and/or most depressing topic you can talk about at a party?
Painful Rectal Itch.
Title: Re: Touchiest and/or Most Depressing Topic To Talk About At Parties
Post by: Wineslob on July 30, 2008, 02:26:26 PM
"Is this a boil on my ass?"  :-)