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demmiblue (36,949 posts)

My heart is broken💔... No one should ever have to hear their wife say: "Get this dead baby out of me!".

My heart is broken💔: As friends & family know, my wife was pregnant with our 2nd child, & about to begin her 2nd trimester. A few days ago she had severe pains, & bleeding, and had to go to the emergency room. There, it was discovered that our baby no longer had a heartbeat. Devastated doesn't come close to what that feels like.

Unfortunately for people like us, because of the current laws in the state of Texas, that was only the beginning of this nightmare. Jess (my wife) had an "incomplete miscarriage", and what needed to happen, what was best for HER, and her health, was to terminate the pregnancy, and get the baby out.

The doctor gave her a medication that would move this process along, and sent her home. Where, apparently we would be handling it ourselves. We were told it might take a couple of attempts before it worked.

I'll let you decide how you feel about that.

After a long, painful night of the equivalent of early labor, the baby was still with her. So, we went back to the Emergency Center to get the 2nd dose. A new doctor was on call. He was an older man. You could hear him in the hallway as he said, "I'm not giving her a pill so she can go home and have an ab*rtion!". Being well aware that our baby no longer had a heartbeat. Then, he came into the room to say, and I quote: "Considering the current stance. I'm not going to prescribe you this pill". Then, just sent us on our way.

The "CURRENT STANCE"?! Did he really just say that?!

No one should ever have to hear their wife say: "Get this dead baby out of me!".

Can you even imagine how that must feel?

The pain, and the bleeding continued. So, we decided to go to another hospital, about an hour away. There was a female doctor on call there, and we thought we might have better luck.

I should probably mention, the procedure to get the baby out is called a D & C. It's scary, & traumatizing, but sometimes necessary in situations like ours. Especially in emergency circumstances.

So we get to the next hospital. They take Jess in, ask her a bunch of questions, do a new scan... confirm that the baby is still there, with no heartbeat, and then disappear... for hours. Only to come back in and keep asking the same questions over and over. It's becoming clear that they're primary concern is NOT my wife's health. Instead, they seem to be worried about the legalities involved.

So, they decide it is not "enough of an emergency" to perform the D & C.

They do, however, prescribe another, stronger, final dose of the medication for us to try again... at home.

So, we go home to try again. Another long day/night of early labor pains. Only to discover my wife UNCONSCIOUS in the bathroom. Having to pick my wife's cold, limp body off of that bathroom floor, not sure if I was about to lose her, is something I will NEVER forget.

She had to be rushed to the hospital.

By this point she had lost so much blood, and bodily fluid, her body gave out.

They were able to stabilize her, give her the fluids she needed, and we came back home yesterday afternoon. We were also able to confirm that our baby was no longer with her.

Now, not only do we have to live with the loss of our baby... we have to live with the nightmare of what we just experienced because of political and religious beliefs. MY WIFE'S HEALTH SHOULD HAVE COME FIRST. PERIOD!

God knows what mental and emotional damage this has done.

If you consider yourself a staunch "pro-lifer" ... 1) You've never been through what we just went through, and 2) You should take a long, hard look in the mirror and reevaluate your reasons for supporting such a cold, barbaric, ignorant point of view.
It's not that black & white, and it's never going to be.

If you think your "Pray To End Ab*rtion" sign in your yard is "Christian", I suggest you revisit the teachings of Jesus and try again. If you support these laws that make ab*rtion illegal, and result in people being put through what we just were, you should be ashamed of yourself. I've never been so angry, or heartbroken... and the devastation I'm feeling must pale in comparison to what my poor wife is feeling.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100218966017

Worried about the current laws in TX? People are ghouls
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The DUmpster / Re: DU updates and announcements
« Last post by Old n Grumpy on Today at 11:39:25 AM »
Lie. Even MVD would be embarrassed at this attempt to scam the money out of DUmies.

I wonder if MVD will see this as a perfect opportunity to show up with another begathon  :lmao: :rotf: :rotf: :rotf:
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Poultry company responsible for teen's 2023 death found to have 'oppressive child labor' at separate plant: DOL

https://abcnews.go.com/US/minors-found-working-alabama-poultry-plant-16-year/story?id=110418225

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Investigators allegedly again found minors working on the kill floor of a poultry plant owned by the company that was found responsible for the death of a teenager last year, according to court filings.

Department of Labor investigators said they discovered on May 1 "oppressive child labor" at the poultry plant in Alabama, "namely children working on the kill floor deboning poultry and cutting carcasses," after obtaining a civil search warrant.

"The children had been working at the facility for months," the filing said.

According to court documents, the company, Mar-Jac Poultry, denied knowing it had any employees who were under 18 years.

In a statement to ABC News, Mar-Jac said the minors were hired with documents "that showed they were over 18 years of age."

snip for a fascinating part

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The Alabama plant was cited in December by OSHA for a serious violation after an employee was injured.

According to the Department of Labor, last year 5,800 children were employed in violation of child labor laws, representing an 88% increase since 2019. And of the 955 child labor cases that were investigated and closed by federal regulators in 2023, more than half involved minors employed in violation of hazardous occupation laws.

Many comments (on reddit) about evil capitalism and evil conservative values ignoring as usual that Joe's feds are aware of these things and not doing squat about them. like shutting down plants and charging people up the corporate ladder. 
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Evil Dr. Anthony Fauci was the villain of "Dallas Buyers Club" yet for some bizarre reason the star of that movie, Matthew McConaughey, years later sucked up to Fauci with an incredibly softball interview about COVID in August, 2020. McConaughey likes to portray himself as a politically independent thinker yet he carefully followed the liberal narrative while questioning Fauci. Keep in mind that it was Fauci's drug policies that McConaughey's screen character was angry about. Oh, and please don't tell me that the villain of the "Dallas Buyers Club" was not Fauci because the McConaughey character was railing against the FDA and Fauci was director of the NIAID. Everybody knows that Fauci was totally in control of drug policy and the film producers wanted to avoid legal problems by fictionalizing the villain although it was obvious who it was as Jimmy Dore pointed out.

When you watch the interview by Matthew McConaughey of Fauci you can see it was chock full of wild MISINFORMATION. This might explain why McConaughey now wishes he should have never allowed himself to be talked into interviewing Fauci. Nice touch there at the time to attempt to rehabilitate Fauci by having him interviewed by the actor whose character on screen denounced the Fauci character in "Dallas Buyers Club."

https://rumble.com/v4wjogb-matthew-mcconaughey-cozied-up-to-fauci-who-was-villain-of-dallas-buyers-clu.html
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The DUmpster / Re: DU updates and announcements
« Last post by Patriot Guard Rider on Today at 09:23:52 AM »
We were deprived of that delicious schadenfreude of reading the DUmp in 2016 when Trump beat Cankles like a rented mule.

THAT would have been some delicious reading..my cup of liberal tears would have overflowed..
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The DUmpster / Re: DU updates and announcements
« Last post by Ralph Wiggum on Today at 09:07:02 AM »
Ahh yes.."We knew the threats against Trump originating on our website would invite secret service scrutiny, so we'll kill the website for a week, then blame it on a Russian hack"..

As if DU is even a pimple on the ass of a baboon the Russians would notice..guffaw, guffaw..

We were deprived of that delicious schadenfreude of reading the DUmp in 2016 when Trump beat Cankles like a rented mule.
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The DUmpster / Re: DU updates and announcements
« Last post by Patriot Guard Rider on Today at 08:40:13 AM »
Did he mention the part about DU being hacked by Russia in November if Trump wins? :rimshot:

Ahh yes.."We knew the threats against Trump originating on our website would invite secret service scrutiny, so we'll kill the website for a week, then blame it on a Russian hack"..

As if DU is even a pimple on the ass of a baboon the Russians would notice..guffaw, guffaw..
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The DUmpster / Re: DU updates and announcements
« Last post by 67 Rover on Today at 08:37:03 AM »
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Many of you suggested that we run an additional fund drive during the year,

Lie. Even MVD would be embarrassed at this attempt to scam the money out of DUmies.
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The DUmpster / Re: DU updates and announcements
« Last post by SVPete on Today at 08:29:44 AM »
Did he mention the part about DU being hacked by Russia in November if Trump wins? :rimshot:
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The DUmpster / DU updates and announcements
« Last post by CC27 on Today at 07:46:05 AM »
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EarlG (22,031 posts)


DU updates and announcements
Hello DU!

I have a few updates and housekeeping items you may or may not be interested in. The updates are happening today (Monday). Don't worry -- no downtime is required. Please read on for the scoop.

POP-UP FUND DRIVE

During our last fund drive (the Hearts fund drive in February) we let you know that like a lot of independent sites, DU has been going through some financial struggles recently. Many of you suggested that we run an additional fund drive during the year, and so we are going to give it a try.

Starting today, we'll be running our new "Tip Jar" fund drive. We don't want to be overly annoying, so to begin with there will just be a small banner at the top of every page, a reminder at the bottom of every thread, and the fund drive will just run from Monday-Friday. All we're asking you to do is kick into our "Tip Jar" with a one-time contribution.

The fund drive asks you to show your appreciation for DU, but DU wouldn't be the community it is without its members, and so we also wanted to recognize the DUers who YOU think make this community special. As a bonus for contributing during the Tip Jar fund drive, you'll be able to leave "kudos" for another member. This is going to be pretty low-key -- we're not going to send out notifications or leave hearts on people's posts like we do in February. But when I announce the end of the fund drive on Friday, I'll recognize the DU members who received the most kudos, for their contributions to the community.

EDITORIALS & OTHER ARTICLES

By popular demand, we're restoring Editorials & Other Articles to DU's "Main Forums" section. Starting today, it will appear just below Latest Breaking News in the navigation sidebar, and will also appear in the Main Forums section on the All Forums page. The forum will once again be hosted by the Main Forum Hosts.

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This is a very minor update, but starting Monday the "Subs" and "Posts" tabs are going to say "My Subs" and "My Posts" just to make things a bit clearer.

TWITTER EMBEDDING

Given all the shenanigans over at x.com, we've received a number of questions about what will happen with tweet embedding on DU. As of right now, tweet embedding still works as it always has done, provided that you use "twitter.com" in your URL, and not "x.com"

x.com URLs do not currently work to embed tweets on DU, and getting them to work could be a lot more complicated than it might seem. So as of now, nothing has changed -- we're continuing to allow embeds with the twitter.com URL until x.com officially prevents that from happening, and after that we'll have to see what happens.

"THREADS" EMBEDDING

We are making embeds from Meta's Threads platform available, starting today. This will work the same way as other embedded content on DU -- simply paste the URL of the Thread into your post, and the embed will appear on preview. It only requires the first part of the URL, so we recommend previewing before you post, so you can remove any unnecessary characters.

Threads embedding seems a little "jankier" than tweet embedding, by which I mean that during testing, we noticed that sometimes it might take an additional page refresh to make the content appear. Unfortunately we don't have control over this, but hopefully it won't be too much of a problem.

We do not yet have a Threads "indicator" like we do for YouTube videos and tweets on the Latest/Greatest pages and in forums, but if posts containing Threads ever become as prevalent as those other two platforms, we'll create one. Speaking of which...

YOUTUBE/TWEET INDICATORS

It came to our attention recently that many DU Star Members might not know that there is an option to see at a glance which OPs contain YouTube videos, and which contain tweets. These can be particularly useful if you *don't* want to click on OPs that have videos or tweets in them.

These indicators are handled by an option on your Account Settings page. When turned on, little blue boxes appear next to the thread titles of OPs which contain tweets, and/or little red boxes appear for OPs containing a video, like this:



This setting is supposed to be turned on for all Star Members by default, but we think it might not be. So at some point (not this Monday though) we are going to remedy that. However, if you want to turn them on manually now, you can, by going to your Account Settings (My DU > Account Settings) page. Scroll down to the section titled "Social media integration" and set "Show tweet indicator" and "Show video indicator" to "Yes."

MAILING LIST

If you're not already on the DU mailing list, you can now sign up via the form on our Contact page. Right now, mailing list subscribers get a weekly "Week In Review" email from me, highlighting the most recommended threads of the week, but should we ever need to notify you of emergency downtime or problems with DU, being on the mailing list will ensure that you stay updated.

OTHER UPDATES

Although our major database project is now over, work continues behind the scenes on security updates and other essential items as we head into the second half of this election year. Aside from that, we are finally almost back in development mode (hence the updates above). I plan to start a "feature request" thread this week to take some suggestions on what you think we should work on next. And we have our own ideas for some future improvements either later this year or going into next year. But for now...

Thanks for reading!

EarlG, on behalf of Elad -- The DU Administrators

https://www.democraticunderground.com/101314173

Time to get the DUmmies to fork over that social security money.
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