That much weight isn't healthy for anyone, period. I know that I could stand to lose some weight and I'm not nearly that size. Walking must be painful carrying out that much extra weight.
I'm a fan of supporting people but 200+ extra pounds is more than a matter of aesthetics.
Some of the most beautiful woman I have met were the big girls, twice my size.
Those that were confident about themselves wore makeup and clothing that was suited to their size. No shorts in public and no clothing that showed off their body.
One I remember out weighed me by 150 lbs. She had beautiful skin and eyes that lit up the room. She was a beauty and knew how to pull it off. She knew how to walk, dress and all anyone saw was her well made up face and hair.
Me a skinney Minnie at 100 pounds could not match this lovely woman no matter what I wore, she was class I was just another face in the crowd.
Has no one ever visited a Musium and checked out the paintings of the Masters ??? Darn when did us skinney woman become popular with men and the public. ?????
Tastes change through the years, but skinney woman are for lust and a larger size woman is for comfort.
Finally after all these years I am at 125 pounds, smalled boned and weighed more then a wet sea bag in my time.
Crap, men are strange they marry a woman that is rail thin, 10 years later they have a pot belly and next thing you know they run off with a woman that has a butt the size of a school bus. Lots of reasons for this.
One of the great mysteries of life.