I have a BIL that has been thru an exceptionally nasty divorce. Not only that, but his kids continually raid his bank account without so much as a thank you. Learned from their mother I guess. She planned to leave him 2 years in advance. Even admitted as much. Raided the checking and savings on a regular basis, but not enough to call attention to it.
He's not willing to take the plunge again, as he is 60 years old. He occasionally partakes in "hired" company, but it sure as hell isn't the $20 street walkers. If ya knew what he has been thru, I doubt anyone here would begrudge him relief now and then.