I have another incident, about a year before we moved we were hanging out at a friends playing a game where the spouse had to guess the other spouses answer. The question was who would you have an affair with or who would you want to marry if you weren't with your partner or something like that. I had to say who my husband would have an affair with (Sandra Bullock - I was right) and I wrote down that I wanted Lenny Kravitz.
My husband didn't guess Lenny but after I said it he remembered my lust for him.
A friend of ours, not really a friend but rather a friend of a friend (who seemed to always be around when we had our couples nights, her husband never says much btw) went friggen crazy. She actually said the N word and said her view of me changed. She also said she would disown her daughter if any one of them (she has two) married a black man (she didn't use to term black man) and that if one of her kids started wanting to date a black kid while living under their roof they would move.
I told her that her comments changed my view of her (I said more than that but that was the general gist of it). She just stared at me blankly and blinked her eyes and said "SO".
My husband said something about it being time to go home and we left. My good friend called me the next day and said the other chick was drinking blah blah blah and made excuses for her. I said there was no excuse that she could come up with that would change my view of her. It was never brought back up again. I know that this couple were at a couple other parties we were at after "the incident" but it didn't stop me from being friends with my other friends. I just ignored her.
She also believes in global warming...not that that means anything. I'm fairly certain she didn't vote for Obama because of the whole racist thing but I have no idea if she is a dem or a republican.
