The advantage of DADT and the predecessor outright ban was that gays were largely tolerated as long as they did their job and just STFU with the gay shit. Thinking that legitimization is such a wonderful thing is kind of like thinking that if driving at the speed limit is a good thing, driving twice as fast must be twice as good.
And 'Homophobia' is an advocate's label, 'Fear' is not really the basis of their lack of acceptance.
I'm sure compaqwhatever has never served in the military, even Canada's such as it is, and bertram just seems like your garden variety lib troll, so neither one of them would have any context to understand a more complex and thorough answer.