This is yet another case of the special few wanting the privileges of the normal many. Like the Mothers who demand that their profoundly mentally challenged child or kid with serious behavioral disorders be "mainstreamed" in so as to disrupt the education of every other kid in the class. But she doesn't care about the rest of those kids, as long as her Johnny feels happy every day.
In reality, those kids would be far better off in a classroom with others like them, so they can learn together and socialize with kids who have the same challenges. Suggest that to a liberal, though, and you're just trying to "hide them away in a cage".
As for patchouli, it was used on me in a massage at a spa. Didn't know what it was, and it smelled OK at first -kind of woodsy in a nice way. By the time I was driving home, I was looking everywhere in the car to see what was going moldy.