I was hit up a few weeks ago by a young girl outside a local CVS. She wanted money for dinner. I told her I didn't hand out money to strangers, but if she was really hungry, I would buy her something reasonable inside CVS. It seemed reasonable to me that a hungry person would agree to take whatever a stranger offered. Her reply was no- she was hungry for something hot from the restaurant across the street. I laughed it off and said she must not be that hungry if she was turning down my offer.
Next thing I know, she shows up with the biggest jug of eggnog she could find. I'm not one to make hungry people jump through hoops, but eggnog? I turned down her request and she wanted to know why I wouldn't buy it for her. I informed her that eggnog does not = a meal, and if she wanted a complete stranger to help her out, at the least she could pick something that was a meal. She didn't like that answer at all, and disappeared while I continued to shop. She tried a couple of equally ridiculous ploys, at which time I finally gave up and told her she must not be that hungry. She said something really tacky and stomped off in a huff. I left her to hunt down the next unsuspecting stranger.
I'm happy to help those who are down on their luck and truly need something. I'm even ok with getting suckered once in awhile by someone who at least acts thankful for help from strangers. She burned me a bit, but I didn't lose anything out of the deal, and I now have a funny story (at least to me) of someone who is so hungry that only eggnog will take away the gnawing pain.