My ex didn't have a thought or concern when she kicked my ass out of the house. Of course it was HER house. She didn't even care that I had no place to go, no living relatives, etc. And she works for the same company as you, Deb. Then, as the house was foreclosed on, she managed to find a townhome that one of her friends bought and rented to her. Here I am, struggling to make ends meet, while she's sitting all fat, dumb, and happy, literally. OK, I'm whining, I know.