Carl, one point that may clarify things for you is to break it down smaller.
Do you, Carl, have the right to DEMAND that your next door neighbor defend your life and/or your family from a robber, rapist or murderer? Is it correct that your neighbor can and should be forever branded a criminal - with potential prison term or other punishment determined to be "suitable" - if he doesn't respond to your demand to protect you and your family?
Legitimate government derives all of its authority from the governed. If you do not have the authority to demand that your neighbor stand in harms way of you and your family, than neither does your government. No matter how loud and insistent the voice of the mobocracy is.
You have the right to life, liberty, and the persuit of happiness. So do I. So does Chump. No one's right to life, liberty or the persuit of happiness supercedes anybody elses. That means, that you have the right to defend your life with deadly force if necessary from those who would infringe upon your life or liberty, but you DO NOT have the right to demand that someone else defend your right to life or liberty. Because you do not have that right, neither can government, and that body remain a legitimate government.