And what we know over the past 25 years is that language of personal responsibility is often a code language used against poor and minority communities.
Its not a code word for anything you knucklehead. It means precisely what it looks to mean and that is IF you want to be in control of your own life, then take control of your own life. Make wise decisions that will help you in life and not hinder you.If you make a mistake, learn from it and move on and do something different. If it seems it is disproportionately applied to the 'poor' and 'minority' communities, then perhaps that says something about the values in those communities where being in charge of one's life beyond being rampant consumerism and collectors of bling is non-existent. What amazes me is that so many mush heads probably sit here and think this woman knows what she is talking about because of all her pedigrees when the argument she is trying to make is crap and easily argued against. I would submit to her that she makes anything that requires people to take a look at their own behavior about something it is not in order to deflect responsibility and continue negative behaviors and perpetuate cycles in the interest of keeping things status quo. What would be her motivation? Well either she is a well-educated idiot that bought every line of crap she was fed, she has her own issues that keep her from accepting reality because accepting a myth is far easier then blaming mom, dad, or herself, or she gains something personally by encouraging irresponsible behavior in other people and then projecting that behavior on to others.
So for any poor or minority reading this, are you satisfied to keep being a loser in life so that this woman can be 'right' and have a job or does your own life have enough value that you will stop pointing the finger at others and do what it takes to be successful or have a safe community or work for the things you want in life? Isn't this one of those times that you would like someone like this to be wrong? Everyone has obstacles in life EVERYONE! There isn't one of us who does not have our cross to bear in some way whether it is being shy, having a low self-opinion, having a family member who is ill we must care for, or being born into a poor family. The beauty of life in the states is you were born into a country where your doors are WIDE open. You may have to rise above some shit that your family has saddled you with by how they raised you or the community they raised you in, but it is not insurmountable. There are people who have suffered some pretty horrific things who manage to conquer their disadvantages...being born 'poor' in a rich country with opportunities galore is a relatively small hurdle by comparison.