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crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« on: December 17, 2008, 10:27:00 AM »
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If I were my fellow alum Skins, I'd get this bonfire out of General Discussions and stick it in one of the lesser known forums as soon as possible, so the general public won't see it.

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Depression, a view from the inside and what can be done about it

I talked to a psych dr at the hospital a few weeks back and she told me it is amazing that I am not in the hospital or in worse shape than I was. I suffer from PTSD, anxiety disorder, and panic attacks in general - not to mention depression.

I basically told her about the last 4 years of my life, everything from losing my mom, career, house, wife trying to kill herself and her sickness, that my wife is with someone else right now but also with me, my kids, and so on. And I didn't even get to all of it.

This time of year when I see so many people having joy I am glad for them, but it only makes my own pain even deeper. At one time in my life I was the guy helping people out during this season (and other times of the year at retirement homes). Now I am on the other end of it and wishing the pain in my heart would just stop.

Were it not for my little one I would probably end it all because each day is more and more pain than the one before. No job, still struggling with CA unemployment and not getting answers - so no income yet, have applied for jobs from Wendy's to computer management positions and hear little to nothing.

Hope is something I cling to like a life raft but each day it wears away more and more as the waters of despair fill the raft.

I have tried to be kind to others in my life, tried to do the right thing even when it hurt me personally, and yet it has not panned out.

Not much anyone can do for me I suppose at this point - but there is something we can all work for for the future and those who may go down the same road:

1. Health care for all
2. Mental Health care for all
3. Streamline aid for people - make it quick and easy to get help
4. More funding for social programs.
5. Centralize resources, like a common web page (apply for one and one click from there to apply for other forms of aid) - share data so people don't spend an assload of time replicating the same information over and over. Apply for food stamps, that data is filled in when you need HEAP or welfare, etc.
6. One click matching to local non-gov entities based on your local based on needs you check off (Salvation army helps out with some bills and food, as does angel food network, etc) - 1 stop shopping. I think our government could handle this project with it's vast resources and the help of volunteers (just need a good project management team)
7....Add your own ideas (from prescriptions to clinics etc)

I have been through a hell I have not totally shared here, and it is not always easy to stay focused and work on all this issues from 100 different angles and sources.

I will volunteer my own time to help a project like this happen because there are so many needing help - and I don't have the money to help but I have the technical know how to many a things (including extensive project management experience).

I may have lost almost all hope, but that does not mean I can't work to give others some hope.

And that was what this last election was about to me. Hope.

PS - Thanks to my many friends who have been there for me during these last few years, I couldn't have made it without you.

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6. Find a Psych survivor group or drop in

Nami takes alot of money from pharmaceutical companies,They have some policy positions I disagree with strongly.I don't trust Nami.Some do, I don't.

Check out any drop in centers run by ex patients, they are a great place to get support without alot of crap and control games.

Here are some resources.What state are you in?
http://www.ncmhcso.org /
http://www.mhselfhelp.org /

If you are in Maryland...
http://www.onourownmd.org /
PM me if you need info or contacts in Maryland.
I can get you numbers to call and stuff.

I have PSTD too and depression dissociation,adhd. You are not alone.

There are lots of people that have issues who are not ashamed to say so. Also on DU there is a mental health support group too,check it out.There's some good people over there.
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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #1 on: December 17, 2008, 10:34:46 AM »
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2. Mental Health care for all

That in a nutshell is the end game for these parasites...to be declared disabled due to mental issues so that they can enjoy a life as normal without ever having to contribute to society.


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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #2 on: December 17, 2008, 10:39:23 AM »
That in a nutshell is the end game for these parasites...to be declared disabled due to mental issues so that they can enjoy a life as normal without ever having to contribute to society.


I think if they got the "mental health" care they "think" they want, they'd be in for a BIG surprise.....When the P-Doc told them to get off the frikkin net, out into the "real world" and knock the stupid chit off....
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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #3 on: December 17, 2008, 10:46:08 AM »
Is TSS ever happy?  Ever?

Most people in this country have issues, and have gone through minor and major traumatic things in their lives, sometimes repeatedly, sometimes just once or twice.  My mom died of a massive heart attack at a young age when I was not even yet a teen and I was the only one home with her.  I learned early on that I could wallow in that tragedy or not.  What good would it do to wallow in tragedy?  None.  

TSS sounds like he wallows in misery and wallows in his attitude that he is owed something by other people or the government to fix whatever his latest tragedy is.  People like that are challenging to have as friends and employees and family.  He seems to constantly be on the edge of threatening to drink too much, harming himself, or committing suicide.  In other words, he uses emotional blackmail to get sympathy.  

I doubt he will ever take responsibility for fixing his own mental health issues.  If that includes taking medication, psychiatric help, seeing a psychologist, whatever.  But only he can be responsible for it.  I get the feeling the other dummies have found being his friend exhausting.  


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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #4 on: December 17, 2008, 10:49:47 AM »
For someone who has "PTSD, anxiety disorder, and panic attacks in general - not to mention depression," the LAST place they need to be reading and posting is on liberal pol sites and blogs.  And it's exactly those type of people who are on lib websites at least a few hours everyday -- and I do mean everyday.  That crap could make normal people depressed and stressed out if they devote too much time to viewing it.

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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #5 on: December 17, 2008, 10:52:16 AM »
For someone who has "PTSD, anxiety disorder, and panic attacks in general - not to mention depression," the LAST place they need to be reading and posting is on liberal pol sites and blogs.  And it's exactly those type of people who are on lib websites at least a few hours everyday -- and I do mean everyday.  That crap could make normal people depressed and stressed out if they devote too much time to viewing it.

I'll bet the subway cat's psychiatrists, psychologists, and counselors don't like the idea of the subway cat hanging around Skins's island.

If they even know about it.
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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #6 on: December 17, 2008, 10:55:07 AM »
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I suffer from PTSD, anxiety disorder, and panic attacks in general -
You do not have PTSD stupid very few people outside of combat veterans and victims of violent crimes suffer from this! It's become a catch all for any and all anxiety these idiots feel. It's kind of a slap in the face of the aforementioned if you ask me! I also love how redundant this is. Usually if one suffers from an anxiety disorder they have panic attacks! :whatever: This guy is such a vagina! :whatever:
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« Reply #7 on: December 17, 2008, 11:04:18 AM »
He won't help himself and being on the DU constantly only feeds that.  When I find myself starting to feel sorry for myself or feeling down, I turn the TV news off, and turn the music on and I dance.  I just need to go out with my girls and dance.  (I stole that line from a Dane Cook comedy routine). 

Then again, I've seen a picture of TSS and he shouldn't be dancing, at least out in public. 

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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #8 on: December 17, 2008, 11:08:18 AM »
The dude should just be happy he feels somethin....
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« Reply #9 on: December 17, 2008, 11:20:00 AM »
The dude should just be happy he feels somethin....
Yeah his sons from his first marriage would probably disagree!
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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #10 on: December 17, 2008, 11:32:29 AM »
Yeah his sons from his first marriage would probably disagree!
You're prolly right....Don't mind me today...meds are still F'd up...
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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #11 on: December 17, 2008, 11:47:06 AM »
You're prolly right....Don't mind me today...meds are still F'd up...
You wouldn't happen to be taking Topamax would you Ree?
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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #12 on: December 17, 2008, 12:21:22 PM »

PTSD.......

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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #13 on: December 17, 2008, 12:33:37 PM »
You wouldn't happen to be taking Topamax would you Ree?
No..Depakote and Neurontin....
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« Reply #14 on: December 17, 2008, 01:22:08 PM »
No..Depakote and Neurontin....
BP1 or BP2?
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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #15 on: December 17, 2008, 01:39:07 PM »
Is TSS ever happy?  Ever?

No.  He's such a loser that he enjoys wallowing in his loserness, kind of a one-person sado-masochistic relationship.  He needs to take a short walk off a big building.
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« Reply #16 on: December 17, 2008, 01:39:13 PM »
BP1 or BP2?
2...hyper manic...feelin just flat is gettin to me abit(damn now I sound like a DUmmie) :o
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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #17 on: December 17, 2008, 02:04:35 PM »
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1. Health care for all
2. Mental Health care for all
3. Streamline aid for people - make it quick and easy to get help
4. More funding for social programs.
5. Centralize resources, like a common web page (apply for one and one click from there to apply for other forms of aid) - share data so people don't spend an assload of time replicating the same information over and over. Apply for food stamps, that data is filled in when you need HEAP or welfare, etc.
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7....Add your own ideas (from prescriptions to clinics etc)

You know, if you're so despondent and sick that you can't even function enough to have the "hassle" of filling out forms for all the free stuff you want then perhaps it IS time to check into a mental hospital. Granted, depression isn't fun. I'm on antidepressants and will be for the rest of my life but this is MY mental health. How I feel affects me and everyone around me. I owe it to myself and my family to be proactive about my medications, dosage, etc. The panther-thing is a parasite and has no dependents, it's mood and "crazy" influences mostly only itself, but TSS has a family. If he thinks this nonsense ISN'T affecting his child he shouldn't be parenting, period. He does more harm than good. Maybe his wife didn't want to attend the daily pity party anymore.

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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #18 on: December 17, 2008, 02:20:26 PM »
2...hyper manic...feelin just flat is gettin to me abit(damn now I sound like a DUmmie) :o
You are mania dominant then? You must not have the seasonal depression stuff going on huh?
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« Reply #19 on: December 17, 2008, 03:19:51 PM »
You are mania dominant then? You must not have the seasonal depression stuff going on huh?
yes mania dominant...but haven't found the "right meds"(or combo) yet.... I know it will get better...I just miss feelin "really good"
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« Reply #20 on: December 17, 2008, 07:35:47 PM »
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6. Find a Psych survivor group or drop in

Nami takes alot of money from pharmaceutical companies,They have some policy positions I disagree with strongly.I don't trust Nami.Some do, I don't.

Check out any drop in centers run by ex patients, they are a great place to get support without alot of crap and control games.

Oh good idea......let the chimps run the zoo....oh brother.


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« Reply #21 on: December 17, 2008, 07:36:45 PM »
Oh good idea......let the chimps run the zoo....oh brother.

Damn, are we twins or something, sir?

I keep thinking the same things you're writing.
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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #22 on: December 17, 2008, 09:40:32 PM »


I wonder how much The Straight Story has collected from the DUmmies since his wife left him ?

He sure seems happy.  Posting like he dosen't have a care in the world.
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Re: crooked tale primitive in a funk; subway cat tries to help
« Reply #23 on: December 17, 2008, 09:43:57 PM »
PTSD?  From what?  Fourth of July fireworks?  :whatever:
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« Reply #24 on: December 17, 2008, 10:36:03 PM »


I wonder how much The Straight Story has collected from the DUmmies since his wife left him ?

He sure seems happy.  Posting like he dosen't have a care in the world.


I bet they send him more hugs and lights than money these days. 

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