It's kind of pathetic that DU-grade Progs seem unable to accept the grossly obvious - to normal people - fact that in elections, sometimes you win, and sometimes you lose. In 1992, 1996, 2008, 2012, and 2020, "I" lost. In 1996, I was a bit surprised, given what Bill Clinton was exposed as being, but as in the other years, I went on with my life. I had munchkins to raise, family health issues, helping my son with his successful quest to earn Eagle rank in Scouting, a homeschooling support group to help lead, kids in college, 5 layoffs to work through ... yada, yada, yada ... basically the kind of unheroic ordinary life stuff similar to what you all lived through.
DU-grade Progs seem unable to do that and instead wallow in depression and rage.