crap! i think my mom knows i'm dating my boyfriend

[Lauri]

so, aspiegirl is 16, has a 21 year old boyfriend and is lying to her mom about it.. here is some pearls of wisdom for her from the DUmp..

pitohui (1000+ posts)      Thu Aug-21-08 07:57 PM
Response to Original message
20. it's our job as teens to protect our moms from the truth
 as you can see from the other posts, if you tell your mom, she will likely wig out

16 and 21 is not going to be a long term relationship but neither is it unnatural, in my day, we all preferred to date men in their 20s (it was legal then and no one thought anything of it and teen BOYS are not as mature as teen girls so it's actually a logical match)

since you are now 16 and can't get your BF in legal trouble you must follow your heart but always use protection aga. disease/babies

i don't agree w. consensus that a 21 yr old boy and 16 yr old girl is an evil unnatural pairing, i think it's just today's politics that make us feel obliged to say so

unfortunately the reality of today's world being what it is you can't really tell your mom and expect her to understand

even if she dated a 21 when she was 16 (and i promise you that she did)

if you are not strong enough to keep your secret then you're going to have conflict w. your mom on this issue, it will be impossible to keep everyone happy
in other words my advice is simple: NEVER FESS UP UNTIL YOU'RE READY TO DUMP THIS BOY -- then your mom's unhappiness will give you the excuse you need to move on, but while you're enjoying the relationship i think you should learn to be a better fibber -- lying is an essential life skill to have if you ever expect to hold a job as an adult, might as well learn it now, 16 is getting pretty old

http://www.democraticunderground.com/discuss/duboard.php?az=view_all&address=105x8038599


and oddly enough, the rest of the DUmmies are telling this kid that lying to her mom is not ok.. 

[Lauri]

RadiationTherapy
Response to Original message
33. Where did you two meet?

 
 
 

AspieGrrl  Response to Reply #33
38. A queer group.
 Yeah it's this group for LGBTQ youth (in their teens and 20's).

i guess mom cant get mad about that; otherwise she'd be a narrow minded bigot homophobe, right? 

[Wretched Excess]

a 16 year old girl and a 21 year old man?  if sex in involved, that is statutory rape in most states in this country.

[TheSarge]

I feel real sorry for the first 21 y/o boy...that comes sniffing around my daughters...or a 21 y/o female that tries to come sniffing around my 16 y/o son.

[Wretched Excess]

watch for a lock on this thread, for the same reasoning that they instantly lock "I am depressed and feeling
suicidal" threads.  they post a link to the suicide hotline, tell them to get help, and *poof* the thread.

they don't care if the person snuffs themselves out or not, they only care about being potentially liable.  there
was a big kerfuffle about that back in the heyday of the "ask the administrators" forum . . . you know, back
when the owners of DU were actually obligated to answer the questions of the members of the sect that pay
their salaries.

[Lauri]

a 16 year old girl and a 21 year old man?  if sex in involved, that is statutory rape in most states in this country.

aspiegirl is well aware of her rights.. she knows that 16 is the age of consent in canada.... go canada!

[USA4ME]

If she's 16 and has Asperger's, then as a father of a daughter with Asperger's let me inform you that her mental age is probably more like 13.  Add to that she's a moonbat and now it's more like she's 8 or 9.

So the question comes to mind; this 21 year old male who wants to date a mentally aged 8 or 9 year old, what's his DU user name?

.

[Wretched Excess]

If she's 16 and has Asperger's, then as a father of a daughter with Asperger's let me inform you that her mental age is probably more like 13.  Add to that she's a moonbat and now it's more like she's 8 or 9.

So the question comes to mind; this 21 year old male who wants to date a mentally aged 8 or 9 year old, what's his DU user name?

.

nighttrain?

(wasn't that the guy's name?)

[TheSarge]

they don't care if the person snuffs themselves out or not, they only care about being potentially liable. 

That right there my friend is the entire Liberal outlook on life in a nutshell.

[mamacags]

One of my main philosophies in life is that if you are scared your mom is going to find you doing something then there is a 100% chance that you shouldn't be doing whatever it is.

[Flame]

One of my main philosophies in life is that if you are scared your mom is going to find you doing something then there is a 100% chance that you shouldn't be doing whatever it is.

Good philosphy!   I know when I was a kid and I would occasionally do something I shouldn't, I never enjoyed it as much as I thought I would, cause I was so scared the whole time that I would get caught!

[lastparker]

Im so confused, as I usually am when I'm trying to untangle the issues in a Moonbat's lovelife.

She met this "person" at a

queer group. Yeah it's this group for LGBTQ youth (in their teens and 20's)

So...... is it a man?  A woman?  A cat?  What?   

Because their pronouns are usually totally ambiguous.  You certainly can't go by their pronouns.

[ReaganForRushmore]

I look forward to a future post where the poster has had an abortion and a STD because of her 21 year old bf gave it to her and she's mad at mom because mom is making her stay at home............and the poster blames it all on Bush

[Lauri]

If she's 16 and has Asperger's, then as a father of a daughter with Asperger's let me inform you that her mental age is probably more like 13.  Add to that she's a moonbat and now it's more like she's 8 or 9.

So the question comes to mind; this 21 year old male who wants to date a mentally aged 8 or 9 year old, what's his DU user name?

.

my older daughter is 22 and the thought of her hanging out with 16 or 17 year old kids is just odd. we have friends with kids that age and those two groups of kids have zero in common...

so, i'm gonna assume its a sex thing or the 21 year old boy is absurdly immature.  i have no idea what asperger's syndrome brings to the table for a teen.. either way, its a bad mix.

[GOBUCKS]

Im so confused, as I usually am when I'm trying to untangle the issues in a Moonbat's lovelife.

She met this "person" at a
Quote
queer group. Yeah it's this group for LGBTQ youth (in their teens and 20's)

So...... is it a man?  A woman?  A cat?  What?   

Because their pronouns are usually totally ambiguous.  You certainly can't go by their pronouns.

Lastparker got this one right. But it's not just their pronouns that are deceiving. You gotta watch out for the nouns as well. Remember yesterday when a DUmmy was whining about a landlord being unfair to "my husband"? Turns out they are a couple of cohabiting homo pedophiles. The heart and soul of DU.


 

[Lauri]

Im so confused, as I usually am when I'm trying to untangle the issues in a Moonbat's lovelife.

She met this "person" at a
Quote
queer group. Yeah it's this group for LGBTQ youth (in their teens and 20's)

So...... is it a man?  A woman?  A cat?  What?   

Because their pronouns are usually totally ambiguous.  You certainly can't go by their pronouns.

Lastparker got this one right. But it's not just their pronouns that are deceiving. You gotta watch out for the nouns as well. Remember yesterday when a DUmmy was whining about a landlord being unfair to "my husband"? Turns out they are a couple of cohabiting homo pedophiles. The heart and soul of DU.


 

aspiegirl does admit that her mom would be 'happy' she was dating a guy and not a girl... so, take that for what its worth..

[Splashdown]

I feel real sorry for the first 21 y/o boy...that comes sniffing around my daughters...or a 21 y/o female that tries to come sniffing around my 16 y/o son.

I only have daugters, but when they get older if anything like that happens, my response will quite possibly involve a blowtorch, a pair of pliers, a ball peen hammer and a shovel.

[TheSarge]

I only have daugters, but when they get older if anything like that happens, my response will quite possibly involve a blowtorch, a pair of pliers, a ball peen hammer and a shovel.

I might have to borrow those implements from you. 

[Splashdown]

I only have daugters, but when they get older if anything like that happens, my response will quite possibly involve a blowtorch, a pair of pliers, a ball peen hammer and a shovel.

I might have to borrow those implements from you. 

Btw: Hi-5 for bringing back the classic handle!

[BlueStateSaint]

I feel real sorry for the first 21 y/o boy...that comes sniffing around my daughters...or a 21 y/o female that tries to come sniffing around my 16 y/o son.

I only have daugters, but when they get older if anything like that happens, my response will quite possibly involve a blowtorch, a pair of pliers, a ball peen hammer and a shovel.

When my little girl turns teen-aged, any prospective boyfriends are going to get the Lethal Weapon treatment from Dad.  Dad's going to take said candidate shooting.  Dad's going to send a standard B-21 (torso) target downrange.  Then, Dad's going to shoot it seven times, so that when said B-21 torso target is examined, it will have two eyes, a nose, and a smile on it from the seven rounds I shoot.  Then, said candidate is going to be presented the B-21 target, with the words, "Please be nice to my daughter." 

Hopefully, she won't hate me.

[Splashdown]

I feel real sorry for the first 21 y/o boy...that comes sniffing around my daughters...or a 21 y/o female that tries to come sniffing around my 16 y/o son.

I only have daugters, but when they get older if anything like that happens, my response will quite possibly involve a blowtorch, a pair of pliers, a ball peen hammer and a shovel.

When my little girl turns teen-aged, any prospective boyfriends are going to get the Lethal Weapon treatment from Dad.  Dad's going to take said candidate shooting.  Dad's going to send a standard B-21 (torso) target downrange.  Then, Dad's going to shoot it seven times, so that when said B-21 torso target is examined, it will have two eyes, a nose, and a smile on it from the seven rounds I shoot.  Then, said candidate is going to be presented the B-21 target, with the words, "Please be nice to my daughter." 

Hopefully, she won't hate me.

 

See, I thought about that. But then I think I want the little bastard to think I'm a horrible shot. If he thinks I'm a marksman, maybe he thinks it'll be quick an painless. Can you do a gut-shot smiley face?  That might make an even more lasting impression.

 

[TheSarge]

 

See, I thought about that. But then I think I want the little bastard to think I'm a horrible shot. If he thinks I'm a marksman, maybe he thinks it'll be quick an painless. Can you do a gut-shot smiley face?  That might make an even more lasting impression.

 

Nah I want them to now right off I can nail them from 300 meters. 

That way "out of sight out of mind" is not something they EVER consider.

But for sheer intimidation I'm gonna make sure I've got all of my knives out and am sharpening them and cleaning them when the target arrives.

Death by 1,000 cuts....

[BlueStateSaint]

I feel real sorry for the first 21 y/o boy...that comes sniffing around my daughters...or a 21 y/o female that tries to come sniffing around my 16 y/o son.

I only have daugters, but when they get older if anything like that happens, my response will quite possibly involve a blowtorch, a pair of pliers, a ball peen hammer and a shovel.

When my little girl turns teen-aged, any prospective boyfriends are going to get the Lethal Weapon treatment from Dad.  Dad's going to take said candidate shooting.  Dad's going to send a standard B-21 (torso) target downrange.  Then, Dad's going to shoot it seven times, so that when said B-21 torso target is examined, it will have two eyes, a nose, and a smile on it from the seven rounds I shoot.  Then, said candidate is going to be presented the B-21 target, with the words, "Please be nice to my daughter." 

Hopefully, she won't hate me.

 

See, I thought about that. But then I think I want the little bastard to think I'm a horrible shot. If he thinks I'm a marksman, maybe he thinks it'll be quick an painless. Can you do a gut-shot smiley face?  That might make an even more lasting impression.

 

I suppose a B-21 torso with its abdomen ripped out from a blast of 00 or 4 buck might do the trick.

[djones520]

If she's 16 and has Asperger's, then as a father of a daughter with Asperger's let me inform you that her mental age is probably more like 13.  Add to that she's a moonbat and now it's more like she's 8 or 9.

So the question comes to mind; this 21 year old male who wants to date a mentally aged 8 or 9 year old, what's his DU user name?

.

nighttrain?

(wasn't that the guy's name?)

I thought it was ColdWarrior.

[Lauri]

If she's 16 and has Asperger's, then as a father of a daughter with Asperger's let me inform you that her mental age is probably more like 13.  Add to that she's a moonbat and now it's more like she's 8 or 9.

So the question comes to mind; this 21 year old male who wants to date a mentally aged 8 or 9 year old, what's his DU user name?

.

nighttrain?

(wasn't that the guy's name?)

I thought it was ColdWarrior.