Teaching children to give up trying to be self reliant.
But I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly because you tread on my dreams.
W.B. Yeats (1865–1939)
You cannot TEACH a child to "give up being self reliant." One must CRUSH their spirit so that they either:
1. give up dreaming, and become a pacified blob of clay, easily molded by society, OR
2. become so fanatical about their dreams that they develop behaviors that are antithetical to submission to God.
Either way, Satan wins.