primitive whines about deadbeat dad

[franksolich]

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1018541784

Oh my.

Arcanetrance (1,936 posts)    Thu Dec 26, 2013, 06:44 PM

Need to vent about dead beat parents

My nieces dad refuses to send any money to support his kids. Her mother my step sister works full time but is still struggling to survive. Well last night my niece was telling me she's down to one bra and her mom can't afford to get her any so she was trying to stitch up some of her old ones. Well today I took my niece out and got her a bunch. What is it about some people he feel he can father children walk out and take no responsibility for them.

Now, wait a minute, wait a minute, wait a minute here.

Aren't the primitives the same people who used to love, adulate, praise, the now-late freeloading bum the wily primitive, Wiley50?

The primitive who fathered lots and lots of children, all by different women, and who later resorted to working for cash under the table, so as to avoid having to pay child support?

The primitives loved their pal Wiley50.

And so what's up with this?

Demeter (69,496 posts)    Thu Dec 26, 2013, 09:02 PM

1. Don't know

Took me 6 years, two detectives and a night in jail for him to cough up the funds. Haven't seen nor heard from him since...nor have the daughters.
 
I believed the BS he spun about his dreams of fatherhood and all, when we were young (21). Guess reality didn't match up to his dreams, so he decided he could walk. Wonder if there'd been a boy, or if one girl wasn't permanently disabled, would it have been different?
 
I blame California, in part. The culture there is profoundly anti-family, esp. in Silicon Valley, where the Libertarians run wild and the drug culture still lives.

Skittles (91,218 posts)    Thu Dec 26, 2013, 11:37 PM

2. you're a good person

I had an uncle who refused to pay child support following a divorce - it infuriated my dad (his brother), who pretty much took over the role
 
all I can think of is these people hate their ex more than they love their children

Arcanetrance (1,936 posts)    Thu Dec 26, 2013, 11:58 PM

3. I think what bothers me more is he started a new family with a new wife and basically ignores the children he had with my step sister.

Skittles (91,218 posts)    Fri Dec 27, 2013, 12:06 AM

6. I wonder if that new wife knows

I cannot imagine having kids with a guy you know fails to support kids he already has

Arcanetrance (1,936 posts)    Fri Dec 27, 2013, 12:03 AM

5. I will definitely say this after that shopping adventure I've never been happier I don't need

Bras they are expensive. Mind you if my eating crazy foods continues my need for a bra may increase

[Skul]

There are plenty of deadbeats out there.
In this case, I suspect DUmpmonkeys niece has a mommy that squanders child-support money for "other" things.

[Mike220]

Anyone know how old this niece is? If she's over 18, daddy has no requirement to support her. Could be a similar situation to my family where my sister was cut off because all the help we gave her was going to her drug dealer.

[formerlurker]

Deadbeat dads are the lowest form of scum on the planet.  I don't care if you hate the mother; the courts are against you; blah, blah blah.   You fathered the child?  you damn well better maintain financial responsibility for them.

[franksolich]

Deadbeat dads are the lowest form of scum on the planet.  I don't care if you hate the mother; the courts are against you; blah, blah blah.   You fathered the child?  you damn well better maintain financial responsibility for them.

That's very true, I agree 100%, but I'm having great difficulty reconciling this primitive attitude with their past adulation of, and gushing over, the multi-fathering Wiley50 primitive.  I watched him for years; at no time did any primitive remind him it's bad manners to welch on child support.  In fact, he even got away with bragging about how he was getting away with it.

[I_B_Perky]

Well Dummie... a good number of black men, certainly not all, but a fairly significant number, don't support their children.  Why do I not hear ya all whining about that?   

[Gern]

Someone in the last few months posted epic quote on here, and I'd credit them if I can remember who said it.

Namely, that the problem with America has been the Death of Shame. 

[Duke Nukum]

Demeter (69,496 posts)    Thu Dec 26, 2013, 09:02 PM

1. Don't know

Took me 6 years, two detectives and a night in jail for him to cough up the funds. Haven't seen nor heard from him since...nor have the daughters.
 
I believed the BS he spun about his dreams of fatherhood and all, when we were young (21). Guess reality didn't match up to his dreams, so he decided he could walk. Wonder if there'd been a boy, or if one girl wasn't permanently disabled, would it have been different?
 
I blame California, in part. The culture there is profoundly anti-family, esp. in Silicon Valley, where the Libertarians run wild and the drug culture still lives.

Progressivism/Marxism is profoundly anti-family. In fact, it requires destroying the family unit.

Learn to mole better.

Or be less of a bitch.

[Tucker]

What would a liberal woman need a bra for?

[franksolich]

Someone in the last few months posted epic quote on here, and I'd credit them if I can remember who said it.

Namely, that the problem with America has been the Death of Shame. 

I know I quoted it soon after it was said, but I didn't originate it.

thundley4, perhaps?

Or on another thought, wasn't it you?

[Zathras]

Demeter (69,496 posts)    Thu Dec 26, 2013, 09:02 PM

I blame California, in part. The culture there is profoundly anti-family, esp. in Silicon Valley, where the Libertarians run wild and the drug culture still lives.

Hmmm, haven't seen any Libertarians around here lately and the "drug culture" this DUmbass is complaining about resides about 50 miles up the peninsula in SF and in the East Bay in towns such as Oakland and Richmond, not in the South Bay where Silicon Valley is situated.

[Chris_]

Arcanetrance (1,936 posts)    Thu Dec 26, 2013, 06:44 PM

Need to vent about dead beat parents.

Liberal family values.

[GOBUCKS]

Aren't the primitives the same people who used to love, adulate, praise, the now-late freeloading bum the wily primitive, Wiley50?

The primitive who fathered lots and lots of children, all by different women, and who later resorted to working for cash under the table, so as to avoid having to pay child support?

The primitives loved their pal Wiley50.

And so what's up with this?

The drunken deadbeat William Pitt is no better.

He's taken on a tattooed bride, and now a child, despite having failed to earn a dime since W's first term.

All his expenses and obligations fall on his mother's shoulders.

William Pitt's life is no less shameful than that of Wileynumbers.

[delilahmused]

Maybe he found out it wasn't his kid!

Cindie

[Gern]

I know I quoted it soon after it was said, but I didn't originate it.

thundley4, perhaps?

Or on another thought, wasn't it you?

No, wasn't me. It was a great quote.


I thought it was a poignant, succinct summation of much of what's gone wrong with this country; from deadbeat dads; to women having umpteen children out of wedlock by 3 different fathers; people staying on unemployment for two years at a time; living your entire life on SSDI by claiming some BS ailment that gets you out of working; EBT cards that make it easy to just swipe away for anything you want without the stigma of being on welfare.

People have no shame anymore, and social mores have completely broken down as a result.  It's truly tragic.  

[Gina]

I can understand buying lots of panties for her but a bunch of bras?

[NHSparky]

I blame California, in part. The culture there is profoundly anti-family, esp. in Silicon Valley, where the Libertarians run wild and the drug culture still lives.

If by anti-family you mean liberal cesspool "values" which promote unhealthy social mores, easy divorces, and the destruction of the family, then yeah, I could see that.