Quantess (24,863 posts)
To grown men who sexually harrass teenagers:
I got sexually harrassed a lot, for years and years. It was the worst when I was a teenager and in my 20s.
You want to know what it's like? IT'S ****ING ANNOYING!!! And you can't really do much about it when it's drive by, passers-by on the street.
I have never been bullied, I have never been sexually assaulted, and that is probably because of this giant reserve of anger I have within myself, and I am NOT afraid. I have always DESPISED coward sexual harrassers who pick on the convenient targets.
Again, to those ****ING COWARDLY CREEPS out there in cyberspace: YOU ARE GROSS!!! GO **** OFF!!!! I DESPISE ALL OF YOU DISGUSTING ****ING ASSHOLES WHO SEXUALLY HARRASS TEENAGERS!
This anger is directed at a very small percentage of men who sexually harrass teenagers. I wish the "nice guys" would listen to me and not tell me I'm lying.
This is a new OP in response to that one where the guy was asking what's too young for a girl, essentially declaring his desire to join the DU pedo group.So her point seems to be that while she's never been ATTACKED, she's been harassed. I think perhaps she complains too much? Anyway, since DU is the home of ulterior motives...
seabeyond (86,471 posts)
57. that was a ****in ridiculous ****in hide for you from inablers to allow the boys to play at will...
cause, they are just being boys and cant help themselves. how the hell did that post of yours get hidden. a ****in grown ass man asks how young can a girl be that he gets off on before he is a creep and it stands. proudly. not a sole calls the person out.
you, ... you get the post hidden.
bullshit.
and agree. most all us girls have had grown ****in old ass men hittin on us. 12 yr old and some man talking to us about our boobs.
sick creeps.
seabeyond, I think, has been seriously sexually abused at some point. She can always be found on any thread remotely having to do with sex (between man and woman, that is).
But here comes the post that will launch a hundred PMs:
Star Member Le Taz Hot (15,393 posts)
110. Nature had determined that I would
be well endowed early on. I think I was barely 13 the first time some complete asshole stranger walked up to me to inform me he wanted to "titty ****" me. I had NO idea what he was talking about and it scared the living bejezus outta me. I've had vile comments made to me, been, literally, grabbed, squeezed, and groped, all WITHOUT my permission. And that's AFTER making every attempt to hide my shape (bulky t-shirts and sweatshirts). Luckily, our society treats women over 50 as if they're invisible which, after 40 years of groping, I'm JUST fine with.
Quantess, I KNOW you're anger. I truly do. I have NO idea what makes men think it's OK to approach young women in these ways. It's literally enough to make you sick.
Translation: "What about ME? I'M hot! I have big tits, too!" Might as well be a match.com profile...Taverner will be sending a shirtless pic faster than you can say opiate addiction.