This is nothing more than "They told me if I did A, B, & C, that D would happen, but D hasn't happened." No, you idiot. If you do A, B & C there's a better chance that D will happen, but there's no guarantee. You've got to make D happen, it isn't just going to plop itself in your lap and say "You did A, B, & C, so here I am!"
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