But this goes directly to my point. There is no "mutual respect" in this equation. The POTUS' contempt for the men and women in uniform has been on open display for at least 4-1/2 years now, enough so that any claim to respect for them embedded in a salute is - yet another - demonstrable lie. So going back to my original post, I - having for the moment stepped into that Marine's boots - have to proffer the salute to POTUS; however, knowing that POTUS has no respect for me, given my druthers, I would prefer, personally, that POTUS just keeps his scrawny ass moving without saluting, over him returning a salute that insults my intelligence because we - POTUS and I, that is, - both know that it's just another bald-faced lie.
You're putting too much into this, D6. It really is simple. No need to get complicated about it.
Take yourself OUT of the Marine's boots for a moment.
Barry's a piece of shit not only because he's clueless, selfish, utterly devoid of empathy (a true sociopath), but because he doesn't actually EXPECT the display of respect that's due the Office of President of the United States -- the respect that men and women in uniform themselves EXPECT to display to the President. It's a mark of a President's effort to unify, coalesce, and otherwise bring together the men and women wearing uniforms around him when he returns their salute. In short, it's a mark of leadership.
That Marine who stood there with heels locked at Present Arms does not EXPECT the Commander in Chief to return his salute, necessarily, but cannot fail to appreciate the President's acknowledgement. Instead, the Marine gets a dumbass stunt worthy of Shitbird the Clown.
Everybody does stuff they don't want to do. Call it a "lie" if you like, but I think it's much simpler than that.
Plenty of times I've stood out on some dismal parade ground somewhere, immersed in my little shit and dreading another ****ing 2-hour bus ride back to the kaserne, utterly failing to comprehend that my presence on that parade field had MEANING and SUBSTANCE. It was a little thing. Or was it? My presence on that parade field had substance and meaning because of the occasion in which those wearing the uniform had come together as brothers-in-arms. Whether it was a change of command ceremony, a Memorial Day ceremony, or an NCO Academy graduation, my presence at that ceremony meant something for the participants and for those watching -- but ESPECIALLY for the participants. That is noble, and lasting, and enduring. So for me to get wrapped up in my petty little shit was cheap and tawdry and selfish.
I can see with utterly clarity the similarity between me back then when I was all of 25 versus Barry the Big Guy at age 51.
It's not only sad, it's depressing. The ****ing President of the United States behaves like a self-absorbed 25-year-old.
THAT'S why your analogy doesn't hold with me.