the OP said; "As a black man I know I wouldn’t want to hang out with any of them (the Brit’s cool)." 
cali is a black man? did I read it wrong?
No, the bitter old Vermontese cali primitive's just quoting someone.
Dear Eva's white, a
femme, and from Old Money and Much Money in Connecticut.
She was at one time however either married to a black dude or hitched up with one, for which apparently one can blame her distancing herself from people of that derivation now. I dunno what happened, but it's obvious that dear Eva likes black people as an abstraction, an idea, but loathes them as individual people.
Sort of like the adroit sparkling old dude's trophy wife, but her hostility's not based upon experience, but rather that she was a spoiled daddy's little girl, growing up in an ivory tower where all was white and clean.