fizzgig (17,002 posts) Sun Feb 17, 2013, 01:41 PM
my husband seems to be spiraling downwards again
he's frustrated at his job because he's getting no hours (he moves furniture), which is putting a lot of stress on me trying to figure out how to keep us afloat. he and a friend of his had a falling out and it looks like his band is breaking up.
he's been talking about how he doesn't even want to be looked at right now, which is the number one warning sign for me.
he's been doing not much else but playing video games for a week, although we did get our place cleaned up yesterday, which has greatly improved my mood. he's so prone to situational depression but he won't acknowledge it.
now it's time to just be patient and try to ride it out
Aaw. He ain't getting no hours at work and his band is breaking up. Poor dummie. Poor, poor, dummie. Playing vid games for a week. Maybe he should spend his time practicing his instrument? Maybe he should spend his time finding another job? Maybe you should spend your time telling him to get off his lazy ass?
And what the hell is situational depression? Sounds to me like you married a loser and making excuses for him.