We had a kid from Flint land here early last fall. I met him through one of my kids. I'm from Detroit and he started hanging around between job searching. Guarded, defensive little bugger. I kept telling him his biggest problem was that he doesn't have a problem. You live here and there is no immediate crisis. He had that "I WILL get you first" look on his face and it wasn't gettting him very far. So, we started dragging him along while doing chores, going to events in town that had to seem bizarre, but he was polite (though he admitted it was all very wierd). Got him involved in a couple volunteer gigs just for some work experience.
He finally got a job and though his old habits of defensiveness crop up there, his co-workers just tease him out of those moods. They don't realize he's serious, and that is working. He's hoping to bring a younger brother out this summer to live and finish high school. He says, "Before he gets shot."
What a life.