Lady Freedom Returns (2,240 posts)
10. Their is a +1 on the Pro Abortion here.
You see I am one of a handful of people that will tell you that I am Pro Abortion. I am also one of a handful that will tell you that I am one that should have been Aborted. My birth was an accident. My Mother and father had tried for 5 years to have a family. Yet my mother could not carry. They were going to split but here was me. My father guilt my Mother into keeping me. Telling her that she could not due to him being a Preacher and that this was evil ( Mind you it was him that wanted the Divorce).
They started to find out why she was miscarrying due to me as well. My birth marked a life of pain for my mother. The Doctor wanted to abort me due to signs that she could die. My father again guilt her out of it. She was young. He was stupid. As I got older I found out what was wrong with my Mother due to my father using it on me at any occasion he could.
I would much rather been aborted and my Mother go through with the Divorce than to have to see her in pain for so many years. One must look at what the child will be born into.
Well, sunshine, if you're that unhappy, it's never too late to self abort! Still, if she was too young to know what she was doing (as your post implies) then why the hell had she been trying to get pregnant for 5 years prior. And why didn't she, when she was older and wiser, get that divorce. She would have made both your lives better. Did she not love you? While I still have no freaking idea what was wrong with your mother that your father used on you, since you're an adult and realize the sacrifices your mother made on your behalf, what have you done to make her life better now?
Cindie