I have mixed feelings about FHA loans.
From the buyer's side, the loans do help first time buyers the most. Not only from an affordability standpoint, but also, their inspections help the buyers as much as possible, to not get into a "lemon". And their appraiser/inspectors do make sure that any repairs that were found in a home inspection (which FHA requires), are done prior to the closing.
From the seller's side...they can be a flippin' nightmare. Seller has to pay additional closing costs for the buyer that are imposed by the FHA, which is usually around $400-500, that the seller HAS TO PAY! The seller can get slammed with ridiculous FHA requirements. I had one house, that had a 6" to 4' retaining wall along the driveway by the garage with a 10' flower bed between the retaining wall and the front walk. 3 or 4 days before closing, FHA insisted a 30" tall fence be put up the entire length of the retaining wall!! Should have seen me scrambling to find a handyman who could whip that up in 2 days!!! It was a 30-40 yr old house, that I'm sure had had an FHA loan at some point, but there is no "grandfathering" when it comes to an FHA loan.
VA loans are even worse, when it comes to making sellers jump through hoops. Again, good for the buyer. I have a real problem with VA loans, in that they will get a buyer into a house with very little cash paper money...I did one years ago, and it cost the AD Army Sgt and his wife $79 and change to get into the house. That was not the bad part...the bad part was when he was switched from recruiting to going back to an Army base situation less than a year later. They were upside down in the house!!! He was supposed to have been in the recruiting office for 3 years! They ended up renting it out....
HUD started this new loan deal on foreclosed properties some time ago, and has really been pushing it since the first of this year, because the buyer pool of people with cash paper money, is drying up or has dried up, across the country. They have so many properties on their hands, they are doing anything they can to unload them.
I know it doesn't seem like it now...but you might want to be thankful that this has happened. If something so simple as a pipe missing from the hot water heater was missed....who knows what else - much more serious - was also missed.
Before you get into a contract on another one...if you know anyone that has building or contracting experience, take them with you to look over the house, before you spend money on a licensed home inspector. Neither your realtor nor the listing agent, should object. Buyers do it all the time, particularly on a foreclosed property.
I'm so sorry this has happened to you, Snugs, not only for the loss of the money and the house, but it's so very frustrating too.