It ain't the Lorena Bobbitt days, anymore. Just cause your old equipment can't be "refurbished," doesn't mean you can't get a new one, it may not be perfect, but they can do many, many things these days. If they can do face transplants, who knows? Next you might be able to get a dead porn star "donor." Plus, I had rather have a guy without one, than a guy who tried to make himself into something he didn't feel inside. Hoo-hoo's are nice, but not the be-all end-all for relationships.