Comforting words from Rockhead to female DUmmies

[AzJames73]

MineralMan (99,351 posts)           https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029716840

To all women: It's not your fault. It's never your fault.
It's the man's fault. If you did not enthusiastically consent, it's the man's fault. If you were temporarily unable to consent, it's the man's fault. If you gave in after endless whining, it's the man's fault. If you were intoxicated, it's the man's fault.

If some man takes what was not given willingly and gladly, it's that man's fault, and his alone.

You are the only person who has the agency to consent. If you did not give your consent freely and with enthusiasm, it is always the man's fault.

That's the rule. If the rule is ignored, that's the man's fault. No exceptions.

Must be related to the other threads where 2 were violated.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029716687         B2G realizes she was raped after 30 years

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029716539          Raven was sexually harassed.

[Old n Grumpy]

B2G realizes she was raped after 30 years

she needs to go get a pregnancy test.

It is always the mans fault, it is really tough being a man!!

[Happy Fun Ball]

If you have a bad hair day, it's the man's fault.
If that last red light made you late for work, it's the man's fault.
If you forget to charge your phone and you miss an important call because the battery died, it's the man's fault.
If you get a flat tire, it's the man's fault.
If you get to the bank too early and you have to wait for it to open, it's the man's fault.
If your dog leaves a mess on your carpet, it's the man's fault.
If your lottery ticket isn't a winner, it's the man's fault.
If you're tired from spending 8 hours shopping, it's the man's fault.
If you're deep into debt due to the 8 hour shopping spree, it's the man's fault.
If that jar of pickles simply refuses to open, it's the man's fault.
If that jumbo sushi order you ate for lunch is clamoring to leave right now, but the women's bathroom is occupied, it's the man's fault.
If you burn the microwave popcorn because you were gossiping on the phone for 15 minutes, filling the entire office with that horrid smell, it's the man's fault.
If there is no man within 50 miles of you and any of these things happen, it's still the man's fault.
Which man? All of them.

[BadCat]

Ok, so reading DUmmy b2g's sob story, she apparently doesn't even KNOW if anything happened.  She just woke up in a hotel room...not remembering how she got there....alone.

[USA4ME]

I would go a step further. If a male person of color does any of those things, it’s the white mans fault.

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[67 Rover]

Is the same "It's the man's fault" mantra hold true if the woman was previously a man?? 


BTW. Are we not allowed attachments anymore?

[AzJames73]

Shred is now saying he was raped 35 years ago.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/10029717931

[SVPete]

Ok, so reading DUmmy b2g's sob story, she apparently doesn't even KNOW if anything happened.  She just woke up in a hotel room...not remembering how she got there....alone.

The facts she knows also fit drinking herself under the table, being brought to a room, and waking up. If she was so disoriented she got lost going home she could have been so disoriented she didn't know in what room she woke up. Or maybe it was the guy's room, because that was they key he had, but he slept in the hotel lobby while she slept off her liquor.

These stories being DU-fodder, suddenly "recalled" decades after the fact, I'm skeptical.

[Ogre]

I would go a step further. If a male person of color does any of those things, it’s the white mans fault.

Its always the white guys fault no matter what, when, where, why, or how.

[freedumb2003b]

If you change your mind after coitus -- no matter how enthusiastically you participated or how much time passes, it is the man's fault.

In fact, to get du street cred, you are REQUIRED to do just that.

[Delmar]

Response to LuckyCharms (Reply #16)Mon Oct 16, 2017, 03:12 PM
Star Member MineralMan (99,368 posts)
17. I think a lot of men believe that they have to "seduce"

women. I think many men believe that what they want to do is "nasty" or something, and that they have to convince women to let them do those "nasty" things. I don't know. It never made any sense to me. Maybe I just met women who were unusual in some way, because mutual interest always seemed to be there. I don't think my experience was unusual, though. I think we're all sort of interested in reproductive behavior. Biology or something, I guess.

Yeah man, I can dig it.  Back in his free love days with his hair down to his elbows, Rock Head must've been one hip cat.  He didn't groove on a chick unless she was grooving on him.