okay, what'd she do now?

[franksolich]

http://www.democraticunderground.com/10025520124

Oh my.

One wonders what BainsBane did this time.

JustAnotherGen (12,248 posts)    Thu Sep 11, 2014, 01:14 PM

8. And in the meantime

BainsBane got alert stalked and is in time out. Go figure. She tells someone to read a book - and gets' a hide. But to tell you the truth, to be honest - I literally don't understand why some of these punks always seem to get away with it.

You know, our friend from Minneapolis needs to go to the library and check out that old classic, Dale Carnegie's How to Win Friends and Influence People.

It'd improve her social relations considerably.

[Carl]

DUmp fems don`t seem to grasp that fellow DUmbasses hate them because they are arrogant,boorish,self entitled,narcissistic,miserable mongrels.

[Wineslob]

DUmp fems don`t seem to grasp that fellow DUmbasses hate them because they are arrogant,boorish,self entitled,narcissistic,miserable mongrels.

That or have big bOObies.

[Carl]

This was the hidden post that got her a time out.

Response to boston bean (Original post)

Tue Sep 9, 2014, 03:43 AM

BainsBane This message was hidden by Jury decision. Hide

17. Note that it is acceptable to blame victims
 




but not tell others their posts doing so are hurtful to survivors.





On Tue Sep 9, 2014, 12:28 AM an alert was sent on the following post:

   If you "wonder"
http://www.democraticunderground.com/?com=view_post&forum=1002&pid=5507794

REASON FOR ALERT

   This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate.

ALERTER'S COMMENTS

   Accusing a poster of "hurting people" for asking a question is hurtful/ rude and insensitive. No one is "victim blaming" here - they are trying to have a discussion and if they don't say the "right" thing or dare ask a question they get jumped on as if they approve of wife/girlfriend beating. That's not discussion, that's verbal bullying.

JURY RESULTS

   A randomly-selected Jury of DU members completed their review of this alert at Tue Sep 9, 2014, 12:38 AM, and voted 4-3 to HIDE IT.

   Juror #1 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
 Explanation: No explanation given
   Juror #2 voted to HIDE IT
 Explanation: Putting the word wonder in scare quotes, and then saying that using the word amounts to hurting people is bullying.
   Juror #3 voted to HIDE IT
 Explanation: The post in question is an obvious attempt to shut down debate by shaming someone trying to gain understanding.
   Juror #4 voted to HIDE IT
 Explanation: No explanation given
   Juror #5 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
 Explanation: This appears to be a misunderstanding of the original post but doesn't need to be hidden
   Juror #6 voted to LEAVE IT ALONE
 Explanation: Is this one of those alert stalkers? If you look at the thread, a lot of folks jumped on ann about that insensitive comment. Yet, this is the post you alert on? Very telling.
 Juror #7 voted to HIDE IT
 Explanation: No explanation given

   CONSEQUENCES OF THIS DECISION

   You will no longer be able to participate in this discussion thread, and you will not be able to start a new discussion thread in this forum until 1:38 AM. This hidden post has been added to your <a href="/?com=profile&uid=291098&sub=trans">Transparency page[/url].

A Jury voted 4-3 to hide this post on Tue Sep 9, 2014, 04:33 AM. Reason: This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate. 

Which was the result of this exchange and a post hidden at the link in her post above.

Response to Triana (Original post)

Tue Sep 9, 2014, 01:18 AM

ann--- (973 posts)

6. No one is blaming her
 




for that vicious man's actions. She never deserved anything like that - period. It's not "blame" to wonder why a woman who has been so horribly hurt would marry such a man - child or not. I would have had him arrested and put in jail.

And, no, I don't think she "provoked" him to do that. The man is an animal with no self-control.

Response to ann--- (Reply #6)

Tue Sep 9, 2014, 02:38 AM

BainsBane This message was hidden by Jury decision. Hide

18. If you "wonder"
 




Pick up a book on battered women (such as The Battered Woman). Educate yourself rather than wondering aloud and hurting people.
A Jury voted 4-3 to hide this post on Tue Sep 9, 2014, 03:38 AM. Reason: This post is disruptive, hurtful, rude, insensitive, over-the-top, or otherwise inappropriate. 

[franksolich]

You know, I wondered why the primitives suddenly had so much room to discuss other issues, other causes.  This must be why.

[Chris_]

I wonder if she'll show up at DU Jr.

[tanstaafl]

I wonder if she'll show up at DU Jr.

I wonder if she'll come back here!

[Mr Mannn]

I wonder if she'll show up at DU Jr.

I wonder if she'll come back here!

I wonder if she will learn her place and make us all some sammiches. I'm hungry, woman!

[USA4ME]

What a stupid thing for her to do.

The discussion involved the claim that if you wonder why Ray Rice's now wife still married him even after he hit her, that it is somehow a form of abuse itself to even entertain the thought. An immature viewpoint, but one that keeps the simpleminded primitives occupied.

And she allowed herself to get caught up in that silliness. What a shame.

EDIT: Her first post hidden of the 5 was July 7, so she's got 3 weeks plus to calm herself down and try and mature some. At least as much as a primitive can mature.

.

[Doc Savage]

Now, they are all hanging out at DU light.  Raising hell and alerting all day long

[DumbAss Tanker]

I wonder if she'll come back here!

You ignorant fool, read a book!  I suggest "The Battered Troll."