Comment to the OP, a 57 year old female DUmmy who laments that she is no longer the object of male attention:
I am a happy and sexually active man of your generation. I am sexually attracted to certain women of ages ranging from their 20s to their 60s (Marilu Henner is an example of the latter).
As we men get older, our ability to detect screeching harpies increases, in inverse proportion to our capacity to tolerate said screeching harpiness.
To put it simply, DUmmy, you screeched yourself out of the market. We know what we want, and it ain't you.