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Incoming! Pr0n thread.
« on: March 20, 2012, 09:48:28 AM »
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Porno and Prudes

It’s out of vogue for girlfriends and wives to complain about their significant others’ porn use, and a bride who asks her groom to forgo bachelor party strippers is universally seen as insecure and controlling—or at the very least an unrealistic simpleton. Only someone hopelessly outdated and provincial would turn away from Dan Savage’s advice to accept that it’s normal and healthy for people to want a variety of visual stimulus in their sexual repertoire. And yet, there are a few of us throwbacks who believe looking at pornography and paying for sex work are detrimental to relationships. Who ask our partner not just to limit strip club outings or keep porn use under discreet cover but to abstain from them altogether.

See, I’m already sounding like I wear my hair in a 1950s housewife updo and agree to nothing but once-a-month lights-out missionary position. Which is why it was gratifying to read in Sexual Addiction & Compulsivity (Oct-Dec 2011) that research doesn’t exactly hold with the sophisticate theory that porn is wholly harmless to relationships:

Read more: http://www.utne.com/Mind-Body/Pornography-And-Prudes.aspx#ixzz1pfVEejGE

http://www.democraticunderground.com/1002445224

If Coach's metaphor of campfires is apt then this will be a veritable artillery barrage; I've yet to see a feminist and/or porn thread NOT go 300+ replies.
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Re: Incoming! Pr0n thread.
« Reply #1 on: March 20, 2012, 01:15:42 PM »
Boy, if porn is detrimental to a relationship. someone forgot to tell "Toots"! She gets hotter than a firecracker with a tasteful, if there is such a thing, porn vid!

'Course after 39 years, there ain't much that could surprise or embarrass either one of us any more!
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Re: Incoming! Pr0n thread.
« Reply #2 on: March 20, 2012, 01:29:25 PM »
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Re: Incoming! Pr0n thread.
« Reply #3 on: March 20, 2012, 01:40:42 PM »
Quote from: AllosaursRus on March 20, 2012, 01:15:42 PM
Boy, if porn is detrimental to a relationship. someone forgot to tell "Toots"! She gets hotter than a firecracker with a tasteful, if there is such a thing, porn vid!

'Course after 39 years, there ain't much that could surprise or embarrass either one of us any more!

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