Translation to the above statement: "you were lookin' kind of hefty there, but at least you're getting rid of some of that fat."
Therefore, her response will be....
Which in turns translates to...
you won't be getting any for some time.
I dont know that I agree. If I've been working hard in the gym and eating carefully, it's nice for the man in my life to notice my efforts. I think the issue women have is they want men to talk like women. I don't think men necessarily mean anything when they say that they notice you've lost weight; they are men, they are just saying, hey, I just noticed you look a little different. It's us girls who put the implication on things often because of our own issues WITH OURSELVES! I mean if we are dieting and exercising to lose weight what is wrong with someone telling us we have lost weight?
I don't have a lot of female friends and this is why. I don't get my own kind.
And I'm prone to the emotional stuff too, but I know in my head most days even as I'm going through it that its totally irrational. We are crazy, there that settles it. Men are too though, just in a different way.
Did you just see that guys, I ran the gambit up there. I am woman, here me roar.