Limit your in take around 1800 cals.
Drop the "diet" coke and just drink unsweetened ice tea or water. Lots of water. No beer! Watch how much juice you drink. Those calories count as food too.
Lean meats
No carbs
More veggies, god knows you needs the fiber. And DONT drop a pound of bacon fat in the green beans and put a whole bottle of ranch on your salad.
Take supplements to make up for what is missing in your diet until you learn how to make sensable meals that taste good at home. Invest in a good cook book for weight loss.
NO FAST FOOD!
Eat on a regular schdual. You can eat like 4 times a day and make sure your over all cal count is around 1800 if you plan it out and read the labels. No snacks before bed!
If you must have something sweet after dinner make it fruit ( NOT A TON OF FRUIT, and raw, not cups or cocktails ) or get a bag of diabetic candy and just have ONE piece. Learn to savor food. Sugar free jello might be ok if you don't put whipped cream on it.
Walk where ever and when ever you can. Don't use the electric cart at the store and go in with a list and stick to that list. ( this will save you money too.)
Swim at the Y. That is the best thing you can do for your muscles and joints. If you are broke they will work with you. Hell they let me join for free so you have no excuse not to join.
Avoid being around people who have the same bad eating habits as you. That is really hard.
Six months of that and you will look and feel like a brand new person and might able to start a more ambitious exercise program. It is not fast but it really is that simple.
Now if you will excuse me. The Y opens at 5:30 am and I and plan of getting my 5'11' 187 lb azz to the weight room in a few minutes.
