That's a matter of opinion, I suppose.
The point being, the large majority of transsexuals can and do blend into society just fine.
You probably pass by them in stores, on the streets, etc, and wouldn't have the slightest inkling that they born in the opposite biological sex.
Particularly transsexual men, who don't have the same issues with a deep voice, large hands, etc, that often "out" transsexual women.