What is the definition of a hero .?
Is this a soldier that throws themselves on a land mine to save the lives of others.?
Are these Heros the fire fighters that risk life and limb to enter a burning building knowing there is a child inside.?
Seems to me a true Hero knows full well that their actions will save the lives of others. They know they may die but they go forth to do what they need to do.
Civillian heros that were in New York when a plane crashed into sub freezing water. They knew they could not swim yet grabbed a board and paddled out to rescue the survivors. Heros that knew they could die yet placed the lives of strangers above their own.
There is a difference between people that see an emergency and without thought run in to help. At no time do they think of their own life, they just react.
What criteria makes a person a Hero.?
IMHO
He or she is the one that does what needs to be done even though it scares them to death.
Going into a firefight with the enemy to rescue your buddies.
Going into a crumbling collapsing hi rise building to try and save even one person when everyone else is running the opposite way from where you are heading.
Things like that.
I think both of you have described "Hero" quite well....
It's the person....who risks his/her life....to protect/save another. They do it without wondering what praise they will receive, what pay they will receive, what respect they will receive.
They do it because in their minds and hearts....it's the right thing to do.
Can one individual be a "hero" to another? Of course.
The DU person who said his mother was his hero for all that she had gone through in her life....is "hero" a right term for him to refer to his mother? Absolutely. Because to him, she was...on many levels.
Is it right for a kid to think some sports figure as his "hero"...sure. It's a person who has gotten to the top of his sport against the competition, injury, and sheer desire to succeed.
"Hero" doesn't have just one meaning.
There are heroic single acts, a series of acts, or the behavior of a lifetime.
To me, part of being heroic...is acting upon a situation/s, that an individual is thrust into.. with courage and conviction, doing the "right thing"...regardless of personal gain or injury. A passerby who stops at a car accident and pulls out the accident victim before the car bursts into flames is a hero.
Being in today's military, a police or fire department is the epitome of heroism. Each one of those individuals is willing....has VOLUNTARILY...put themselves into a position, that at any time...they could be called upon to risk their life...knowing full well that there is a chance they could end up seriously hurt or, God forbid, dead. But they are willing to do it....for another person, or many persons, or an entire country.
Some can go an entire career without ever being in imminent danger. Does that make them less than a hero? No....because they were WILLING to stand, if needed.
Not everyone is. For that matter, there are gazillions who aren't willing, and only a few who are. Those who are willing to stand...to me...are true heroes.....MY heroes.