Look, my BIL is at death's door.  We're just waiting for the phone call.  They have almost no money, and so the community came together and put on a huge bash, with everything a northern NYer loves:  Food, drinking, gambling, music.  To celebrate the guy's life and raise some dough.  We raised over $12K.   
There's another benefit coming up at the Legion for another cancer patient with 4 little kids.  I expect they'll do well there, too.  It's just what we do.